OP this frustration and jealousy is part of the male condition. That's why the loyalty of women has been highly prized since the dawn of civilization. We just can't help it.
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My GF's past... please help me out watch
- 12-12-2010 02:13
- 12-12-2010 03:06
you sound exactly like me. my bfs been with other girls and had sex with a girl i hate, it bothers me i dont know why. its like no matter how hard you try to get rid of the thought its always there at the back of your head. i even wonder why he had sex with her so easily (after 3 months ..to me it is easily, they wernt dating she was using him he could see it)..
im just going to never bring it up to him, you do the same :/ with time it should fade i guess ..
e.g, it bothers me less now than it did about 11 months ago. just be thanklful shes with you now i guess
- 12-12-2010 03:15
When I was younger I thought the same thing, worried if the girls she'd be with were better than me, worried if she thinks about them, whether they're bigger than me etc.
But honestly, when you're with someone you don't think about the past. I've been in relationships, had one night stands and the lot, as has my current girlfriend. We've broken up, slept around for a few months then ended back together and we're still very much in love. Your girlfriend isn't think about other guys nor I assure you (This is something you won't probably write down bit might be thinking) they haven't "worn her out" if you catch my drift.
She has a past, but so does everyone. If you broke up with her and ended up with someone else, you'll realise you don't think about your ex when you sleep with her, you think about her. Which is exactly what she's thinking about, you.