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    You reek of desperation from that first impression, love.

    And first impression is all that matters when you're on the pull. Drunk teenagers like us are presumptuous.
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    Act sluttier. Simple.
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    Boob job.
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    Look, you're a female (an apparently good-looking female). Just get eye contact with a guy and do a sexy look. If he doesn't come over, he's in a relationship, he's not attracted to you or thinks you look like a *****. Either way, move on - look at another guy.

    It's not ****ing hard.
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    Wanna date me?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I CAN'T AND NEVER DO and it's so FRUSTRATING!

    I'm a girl, and have been told numerous times that i'm pretty/gorgeous and yet on every night out either no one normal and attractive approaches me, or i'm too drunk to know what's going on and as a result all the decent guys aren't *****ish enough to come on to me. And also being too drunk reduces ones appeal significantly... (but I am working on being less of a lightweight...)
    But STILL, even at parties, less pretty girls get off with guys and the situation just never arises for me!
    I don't know whether I give off some sort of unapproachable vibe or what, I seem to get the regular old man/weirdo attention on the street that most girls get, so I don't think it's that problem.
    It's not my personality either because I'm pretty nice (inb4 you're arrogant, i'm not, I just want to put across all the facts), and also not a slut - maybe this is what guys are looking for?!
    Help me, what can I do? Have you been in the same situation and gotten out of it? Do I just need to wear less clothes
    I think I'm the guy version of you, I made a thread about it a while ago. It's weird for me because in normal everyday life I seem to fair very well with girls, I get aproached alot, I get called hansome, hot and stuff by randoms and I had several girlfriends through school/college e.t.c. But as soon as I go to a club nothing ever seems to happen for me personally, alot of girls look at me but they never come over and I never go to them because I hate approaching people, it makes me feel really nervous . I just don't bother going anymore because it's a waste of my time and money. I guess there must be something about me what puts them off in clubs, who knows...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But dudes, if I approach a guy FIRST, he's probably not into me? Otherwise why wouldn't he approach me like most guys do to most girls? EXACTLY.
    If a guy approaches you FIRST, you're probably not into him? Otherwise why wouldn't you approach him like most girls who are not PUSSIES do to most guys?

    EXACTLY.
 
 
 
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