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    Come on, you must have an example of a woman who sleeps around, ask your mother! Oh yeah biatch, i went there!
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    Do whatever you want, as long as it makes you happy - blah blah blah and all that jazz, but no way in hell would I ever get into a relationship with a girl who sleeps around.
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    In the past few days I've read a few times how because boys have to try harder to get sex than girls do girls who've slept with the same amount of people as boys are generally ****s. What complete and utter bull. Some people are so full of ****.

    I don't think you're a **** - you've gone from relationship to relationship with a few casual dalliances in between. I would say that a **** is someone who would sleep with anyone (- in reference to my statement above, surely that defines most boys..?)

    Although I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with being a bit of a ****. I think that the persona you display to people and the reputation you have is important in life in general, but you can sleep with an above average amount of people without shouting it from the rooftops and behaving inappropriately 24/7. People often have reputations as '****s' without actually being ****s - loud girls, dress provocatively, talk openly about sex etc but don't actually sleep around, and vice versa - girls who act quietly and dress modestly but sleep with quite a lot of people. Generalisation, obviously, but I know people like described.
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    You dont have 20 'boyfriends' in a short amount of time, the correct term is casual sex with guys you/she just met. Boyfriends...rofl!

    Also, you are sleeping around? Well if you're after a relationship spreading your legs is not one of the best ways to gain a guy because for one thing a lot of guys brag about the last **** they had and how easy she is, which is quite truthful if you think about it.

    Guys see you as an opportunity to get a wet ****, thats it period and you want to know why you dont stay with guys long?

    Answer: You are just not relationship material, who the **** wants a girl that has been passed around multiple times in a short space of time? Its bad for relationship-building because quite frankly I think you aare rubbish at it.

    Also that girl you talked about? Loads of sex buddies? Really?

    I wouldn't touch her with a full-body condom and a team of anti-viral specialists backing me.
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    Phewy! Im nearly 19 and my number is under 10. Thank the lord
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    Assuming you live in the Western World or are a Western woman this is absolutely fine and completely normal. If anything it is to be encouraged (safely).
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    Lol threads like this make me laugh
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    EDIT:WARNING! THE FOLLOWING COMMENT SPEAKS THE TRUTH AND ( IF APPLICABLE TO YOU) WILL MOST DEFINITELY MAKE YOU FEEL SO **** THAT YOUR FINGER WILL WANT TO NEG ME. READ AT OWN RISK.

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    The reason why you are feeling guilty is plain and simple:

    Everything your parents and society has taught you is that women should not sleep with too many people because they'd be classed as a ****. The fact that you are even posting this in an open forum is just proof that, you already know you are not following the rules set for you by society.

    You may agree with these rules or not, and you might accept it and say "It's fine, I WANT this. It's my choice and I don't regret it. He was my boyfriend for 3 months!" but the truth is you feel guilty for making yourself feel used. Everyone of us would, and if you don't, It's most definitely not because you're being "liberal" but because your principles and good morals are way off tune.

    Some might tell you, "it's your choice..", "I'm not really that bothered" because, hey, in the end it's not their problem is it?
    Some others will tell you fair and square "Yeh I don't mind it. I would still shag ya but like..would never bring YOU home to my mother". Which shows that people already see you as available and willing, yet most definitely not serious.

    Now some of us might be tricked (or would rather think of it that way), some of us fall in love more easily but in the end you should think with your HEAD.

    Yes, you would feel guilty. Nobody forced you to do anything now did they?

    Do you really have no problem with your genitals being used as a public toilet? A free one, that is.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Definitely matters to some. If I had the option of someone who'd slept with 2 or someone who'd slept with 10 I'd pick the former any day.
    LOL I guess you like them barely-legal then. The numbers: 2 and 10... So low.. Are we talking about Britain or some Arab country?
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    Don't feel bad, it's just a ridiculous expectation of society. Just lie, no one will ever know the difference!
    I find it funny how most males up the number of sexual partners they've had, but most females try and make their's as few as possible.
    If you're happy and healthy then your sex life really isn't anyone else's business!
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    (Original post by R3L4Y)
    Yes, you should feel guilty. Nobody forced you to do anything now did they?

    Do you really have no problem with your genitals being used as a public toilet? A free one, that is.
    What about then men whose genitals she is using as a public toilet? Are you suggesting she charges a fee for men who wish to have sexy intercourse with her? Maybe she has a voracious sexual appetite?
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    (Original post by Picaa)
    LOL I guess you like them barely-legal then. The numbers: 2 and 10... So low.. Are we talking about Britain or some Arab country?
    Out of curiosity, what are the average numbers for your age group in your part of the world?
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    I don't think you should worry so much about what people will think of you too much. I would say that you should be more interested in what you think of yourself. If you feel like you don't have a problem with it, then by all means do it, as long as you are responsible then there should not be a problem. However, if it makes you feel guilty, and you are not happy with the way you act, then don't do it, and wait for the right person. Just make sure that your choice is for you and not for other people. The right guy for you should be able to see past any rumours and will, one would hope, be able to see you for the person you are, not just a stereotype.

    Personally, I have been with quite a few guys, and I don't have a problem with it. I don't believe that it is because I don't have self-respect (before someone tells me that I have none!), as I don't do it for any kind of validation etc, I do it because I enjoy it. And, quite frankly, whilst I realise that the way I have chosen to act may mean that there will be men that are not interested in a relationship with me, I can honestly say that they probably would not be the sort of guy I would like to spend my life with anyway. However, that is me not you, and you need to work out what works for you.
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    (Original post by effofex)
    Out of curiosity, what are the average numbers for your age group in your part of the world?
    My part of the world is the same as yours, Londres. On average they claimed to have each had sex at least once with around 14 different guys according to THEIR accounts. However they were attractive girls - the stats might be different for plainer looking young women. Also I think I know a little bit about women's minds so privately I factor the numbers they give by 2 (i.e. double to find the correct number)
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    (Original post by Picaa)
    My part of the world is the same as yours, Londres. On average they claimed to have each had sex at least once with around 14 different guys according to THEIR accounts. However they were attractive girls - the stats might be different for plainer looking young women. Also I think I know a little bit about women's minds so privately I factor the numbers they give by 2 (i.e. double to find the correct number)
    Oh ok - so the average is say - a little bit less than 28 sexual partners (25 maybe) for your age group. But how old do these women tend to be?

    I'm guessing most girsl and women may record these sexual encounters between days 12- 18 of their menstrual cycles - when they often feel horniest and need a rapacious tongue or a throbbing pole within them. Did your results confirm this or was the distribution more even across the whole (approximately) monthly cycle?
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    Would actually be quite interesting to see how sex may be regarded in a world where hymens didn’t exist as a means of telling whether a female is a **** or not.
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    I think most guys don't want to be in committed relationships with a ****.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    [B]Is it now socially acceptable for girls/women to regularly have sex outside of a co
    So why do I feel so guilty when I think about it?? Why am I agonising over the number of people I've slept with? Do men ever feel like this or do they just feel good about it?
    You obviously feel sorry for your son, because you have 99 problems and getting **** ain't one... :cool:
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    If you are commited to your present partener(although you don't have one at the mo)Dont just shag people when your drunk,and practise safe sex,and don't carry diseases.YOU ARE NOT A SLUT,If one of us guys got that much poonani we'd be hailed as legends.
    Use a condom and all is well
    Good luck Tom
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    (Original post by mosmof)
    that is true, but the girl might have sex with 10 different people. i.e they have sex once, she has it 10 times with 10 different people if you understand my principle?

    anyway, you do meet the criteria of a **** and when you want a relationship it will be hard because of your past.
    Not necessarily. In the past I was the definition of a **** (not cheating on anyone though) and it's never caused a problem with relationships. And yes he knows about everything - he understands cos he was a man **** too!
 
 
 
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