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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    can you please develop on why i should pm you?
    pm me we'l develop it from there.
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    pm me we'l develop it from there.
    no thank you.
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    (Original post by Love My Fiance)
    next year but whenever he does come, the wait will be so worth it, good things come to those who wait
    Be patient, I understand that it may seem hard at times but the wait may be worth it in the end. Whatever you do, I would advice against doing anything Haraam.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i really want to bt its nt easy.i dnt want to marry anyone and prior go getting engaged, i will have to get to know the guy, right? Bt then during this period of getting to know each other,i will be committing a sin, no? Im just sooo confused. What if i believe a guy when he says he wants to marry me, bt then it turns out tht he was nt being honest? I dnt want to make a fool of myself
    Explain the bold part?
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    (Original post by jonathan3909)
    Explain the bold part?
    i mean i don't want to marry any guy: e.g a guy who does not value the things that i do.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    no thank you.
    wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you
    well I must say you DID sound a bit pervy...... lool
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    (Original post by Love My Fiance)
    well I must say you DID sound a bit pervy...... lool
    oh gosh i hope not!
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you
    Your second post sounded a bit cheesy but I'm sure you didn't mean it. "pm me, we'll develop it from there" lol.
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you
    I share the opinion of 'love my fiance'
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    Do you not go to university where you could find someone?
    About the religion thing, I dont think its the worst sin you could commit as long as you dont do anything stupid before marriage
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    oh gosh i hope not!
    lool "we can develop it from there" sounds like a sexual suggestion lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im 21, never had a bf bc its haram but i am fed up of being single. What can i do?
    Plz cnt advise me to disregard or quit my religion. Also, i would never use a website for single muslims. I prefer a traditionsl approach. My big problem is tht it is difficult to approach me as i am scared of committing a sin. I dnt want to disrespect my religio but i really want to love and be loved.
    Get rid of the burden of your primary socialisation.

    Then, go on and enjoy your life.
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    OP, what nationality are you? Bear in mind how liberal your family are.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i mean i don't want to marry any guy: e.g a guy who does not value the things that i do.
    Why don't you involve your family?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i really want to bt its nt easy.i dnt want to marry anyone and prior go getting engaged, i will have to get to know the guy, right? Bt then during this period of getting to know each other,i will be committing a sin, no? Im just sooo confused. What if i believe a guy when he says he wants to marry me, bt then it turns out tht he was nt being honest? I dnt want to make a fool of myself
    So long you meet the person and your accompanied by a a member of your family, no problem.
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    (Original post by 4TSR)
    If we lived a life full of "what-if" we will never truly live.

    Also, for the love god, please please learn how to write properly
    you're being a bit hypocritical with that last sentence you just said.
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    Hi OP. btw I don't want people to criticise me or anything, unless you've been in the same situation.
    Ok, i'm a british asian muslim guy. About 10 months ago realised that i really love this girl. at first i tried to do everything i could to put off my feelings, but it just made them stronger lol. i agree with the muslims that say love is a feeling - you can't help it so there's nothing wrong with experiencing it. but what you can control is your actions towards your feelings. i mean, i would never EVER take things too far if you know what i mean. the only thing i want is to tell her and find that she feels the same about me.

    sorry, i'm digressing a bit here lol. what i mean to say is as long as you stay well within your limits, i think it's ok. just casually speak to people, like people have said, you never know who your Mr Right will be!
    has this helped? at all?
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    (Original post by Love My Fiance)
    lool "we can develop it from there" sounds like a sexual suggestion lol
    it was in response to her post 'please develop on why i should...', in retrospect i shudn't have repeated her choice of word 'develop' in my response i can see what u mean now. lol. ps this is typical - the guy is the perv where the girl is innocent just typical
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    (Original post by Peace0fM1nd)
    it was in response to her post 'please develop on why i should...', in retrospect i shudn't have repeated her choice of word 'develop' in my response i can see what u mean now. lol. ps this is typical - the guy is the perv where the girl is innocent just typical
    lol well guess its in a guys nature to be flirtatious without even realising it lol and well...to be honest..you wouldnt really calla girl a pervert would you? you'd call thema **** not pervert lol
 
 
 
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