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Guys stare at me alot but never smile? Watch

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    Maybe you're staring at them first, to see if they're staring at you and smiling - might freak them out a bit.
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    I'd take it as a compliment, they are probably too busy staring to think about their facial expressions!
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    You're probably really pretty, in an intimidating way, guys might feel like you're out of their league? I dunno

    Smile back, see what happens! :P
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    (Original post by rylit91)
    I've a big nose - plenty of people stare
    :jumphug: How do you know it's at your nose?
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    I'd say it's coz you're so fit it's distracting / intimidating to smile... complaint of many a stunning girl.

    PS. This only applies if you are hot. Otherwise, I dunno. :dontknow:
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    Guys you find attractive/hot who stare, look or smile= :flutter:

    Guys who you dont find attractive at all who stare and smile= Creepy
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    (Original post by DJkG.1)
    I'd say it's coz you're so fit it's distracting / intimidating to smile... complaint of many a stunning girl.

    PS. This only applies if you are hot. Otherwise, I dunno. :dontknow:
    ok so i get men staring at me a fair bit, but they dont smile. ive been told im attractive (not that i see it) but intimidating on many occasions now. I just dont get the realtion between attractiveness and being intimidating. explain please its been bugging me for ages!
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    (Original post by alissasantiago)
    :jumphug: How do you know it's at your nose?
    There's nothing else that is abnormal about me, in my opinion, at least. Pretty sure it's my nose.
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    (Original post by GildedButterfly)
    ok so i get men staring at me a fair bit, but they dont smile. ive been told im attractive (not that i see it) but intimidating on many occasions now. I just dont get the realtion between attractiveness and being intimidating. explain please its been bugging me for ages!
    Sounds like my presumption was correct then.

    How can you not get it? :confused: If you were to see a really, really attractive guy (say he was famous too etc.), would you be as confident in approaching him as you would be in approaching a guy friend of yours? Of course not, and that feeling is intimidation. Almost every guy feels it when it comes to super-hot girls, which is why sometimes such girls are all alone for periods of time at parties etc. until some confident players come in and make a move lol.
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    (Original post by Wahaaaay)
    Maybe they're too busy licking their lips?
    YIDOOO
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    (Original post by alissasantiago)
    Why would that make them stare? :lolwut:
    Well, if you saw a girl with a nose the size of the eiffel tower, you'd take a peek.

    For allI know,the OPis a beautiful girl.
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    I often make eye contact with girls but don't smile. I forget

    And/or it seems creepy.
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    They stare because they think you're attractive but they don't have the balls to approach you and open their mouth and say something. They don't smile because they're afraid that if they smile at you, you won't smile back or they worry how else you'll react.

    Most men in society are like this in this day and age. Real men who actually dare to approach girls they're attracted to and be honest with them that they're attracted to them are rare.
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    maybe you have something on your face?
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    I like the non smilers, it does something for me.
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    They're undressing you with their eyes
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    Have you got a mole that looks like Fred Astair?
 
 
 
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