scared of sex Watch
Hmm I get what you mean. But to love someone, you need to be with them a while. And therefore would more than likely have had sex with them by the time you realise you are actually in love.
There is a difference between 'making Love' and 'having sex', most people today don't believe in the foreplay that comes before sex .... I think you need someone to Love instead of someone to have sex with .... I could be wrong..
I completely understand how you mean; people, songs and movies hype sex up SO much, it is great but there's so many expectations that it consumes you. You need to relax otherwise it'll turn out to be a horrible nightmare.
To be honest, I think you're at an advantage, many people including me lost their virginity at a young age(I was 16) and I was real immature; I wish I emotionally mature enough because I don't even know where the guy I lost my virginity to is.