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    (Original post by Peteo)
    Yes, I go a couple of times a week on average and don't have any problem, just wondering why you do?
    Didn't say I had a problem, just said it's more fun tipsy. I've gone out to various types of venue in all manner of states, and the best nights have been the ones where I've been tipsy. Sober fun is best had in some other form such as doing some kind of sport or whatnot else...I don't see clubs or bars as a place to have sober fun.
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    Little bit rapey. At least if you sexually assault a girl and you're so wasted you don't remember it then you won't feel guilty. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Peteo)
    I never said I did this. I don't find drunk girls attractive, I find it a sort of disgraceful due to my unliberated attitude of women.

    You're also getting confused by the meaning of manipulation. By manipulation I mean socialising better. As all social interaction is effectivly manipulation, a means to get what we want from somebody without breaking laws etc.

    But even if I did, it would become ok if I was drunk myself would it?
    In that case why try to pull drunk women then?

    You think a woman getting drunk is disgraceful? God that's pathetic.

    I'm not getting 'confused' - manipulation does not mean the same as socialising better. If you don't want to be misunderstood phrase yourself better.

    I just find it sad that your main goal in going out is to score. It is really quite sad when you think about it.
    Yes it is different when both parties are drunk. Both judgment's are impaired, it just seems very creepy that you go out sober so that you are better at, in your own words 'manipulating' women (:rolleyes:) to pull, even despite the fact you have admitted you find drunk women 'disgraceful.'
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    (Original post by lovely_me)
    In that case why try to pull drunk women then?

    You think a woman getting drunk is disgraceful? God that's pathetic.

    I'm not getting 'confused' - manipulation does not mean the same as socialising better. If you don't want to be misunderstood phrase yourself better.

    I just find it sad that your main goal in going out is to score. It is really quite sad when you think about it.
    Yes it is different when both parties are drunk. Both judgment's are impaired, it just seems very creepy that you go out sober so that you are better at, in your own words 'manipulating' women (:rolleyes:) to pull, even despite the fact you have admitted you find drunk women 'disgraceful.'
    I said I don't try to pull drunk women as I don't find it attractive behaviour...

    How is it pathetic thinking women doing something when they're not in control of themselves leaving themselves extremely vulnerable is disgraceful? Maybe you are trying to justify it?

    And you are still getting confused about manipulation, here is a definition:


    "to negotiate, control, or influence (something or someone) cleverly, skilfully, or deviously"


    That's what guys do when they talk to girls in clubs etc, they don't talk to them the same way they would to a friend, therefore it's manipulation, how can't it be?

    Girls just don't like to to believe this, I wonder why

    And do you not think the majority of guys go out to try and score? Why guys generally go out less in a relationship, especially with other guys?

    Isn't it a girl's fault if she gets herself in a state where she could be easily influenced (although I don't do this as I said previously-I find it unattractive.)
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    (Original post by Deshi)
    I do get jealous of all my drunk mates when walking back from a night out on a cold day, they don't seem to care much (they call it a drunk coat or something), whilst I am freezing to death. Apart from that, I enjoy nights out sober.
    Beer Jacket.

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    I don't really go out to pull. In fact I never go out for that reason xD

    But yeah, I do agree with you to a certain extent - all my ****test nights have been when I've been really drunk and felt really out of control! I find if I just have a couple of drinks and keep a clear head I have a much better time
 
 
 
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