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    Loads of people haven't had sex at 19. I don't see what the big deal is. It's not a race! You're still in your teens! It's not like you're 30 or anything is it?
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    (Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Now I've finished school and I'm on my gap year (defer entry). I don't know how I'm suppose to find a girl and sex with. My dilemma is that should I just have random sex before I head off to university or wait till I met a decent girl (which will probalbly be at university).

    If I go down the first route I don't know what I'm gonna do. Like I'm bloody 19 and a lad so it will be awkward as hellwhen I don't know the hell I'm doing when the sexing happens. The second route is kind of the same but arghh I'm oh so confused.
    Save some money/get a job
    sometime after Easter, but before Spring Bank Holiday leave the country
    go travelling
    problem solved

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    (Original post by clad in armour)
    why on earth is that cute why is it so ridiculously farfetched?

    Well I think it's better than the OP having slept with lots of people and being promiscuous. Just a personal opinion
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    (Original post by Jess6893)
    Well I think it's better than the OP having slept with lots of people and being promiscuous. Just a personal opinion
    Yes thats exactly what I think
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't get why I messed up so bad.
    Not me saying this but I've been told numerous times that I'm a good looking lad (inb4 told my mum) I played rugby back in secondary school and am still very athletic. I went to house parties all the time but maybe lacked the confidence to pull any girls.

    Now I've finished school and I'm on my gap year (defer entry). I don't know how I'm suppose to find a girl and sex with. My dilemma is that should I just have random sex before I head off to university or wait till I met a decent girl (which will probalbly be at university).

    If I go down the first route I don't know what I'm gonna do. Like I'm bloody 19 and a lad so it will be awkward as hellwhen I don't know the hell I'm doing when the sexing happens. The second route is kind of the same but arghh I'm oh so confused.

    Argh I just started thinking about this whole thing again when my mate said that the two girls that were staying at his house were DTF me before I left. Oh man.
    Jesus christ :rolleyes:

    If this "girl" cares so much that you're having an exploration around her body while you decide what you'll do then you're probably not with the right person.

    The first time i slept with someone, he had some experience, I did not. I just went with the flow, found what he liked and what he didn't, and i'm led to believe ;-) was enjoyable for both of us (Well, we're still really really ;-) good friends!)

    Stop worrying yourself, I was 19 when I slept with this guy, i'm now 20 and "technically" still a virgin, but why let it bother you?
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    (Original post by Fubaring)
    Jesus christ :rolleyes:

    If this "girl" cares so much that you're having an exploration around her body while you decide what you'll do then you're probably not with the right person.

    The first time i slept with someone, he had some experience, I did not. I just went with the flow, found what he liked and what he didn't, and i'm led to believe ;-) was enjoyable for both of us (Well, we're still really really ;-) good friends!)

    Stop worrying yourself, I was 19 when I slept with this guy, i'm now 20 and "technically" still a virgin, but why let it bother you?
    Did he put it in your bum first time?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't get why I messed up so bad.
    Not me saying this but I've been told numerous times that I'm a good looking lad (inb4 told my mum) I played rugby back in secondary school and am still very athletic. I went to house parties all the time but maybe lacked the confidence to pull any girls.

    Now I've finished school and I'm on my gap year (defer entry). I don't know how I'm suppose to find a girl and sex with. My dilemma is that should I just have random sex before I head off to university or wait till I met a decent girl (which will probalbly be at university).

    If I go down the first route I don't know what I'm gonna do. Like I'm bloody 19 and a lad so it will be awkward as hellwhen I don't know the hell I'm doing when the sexing happens. The second route is kind of the same but arghh I'm oh so confused.

    Argh I just started thinking about this whole thing again when my mate said that the two girls that were staying at his house were DTF me before I left. Oh man.
    I was 20. That's bad I know but I've always had quite a weak personality, not really outgoing as such and stuck to the same group of friends, so I didn't have too many opportunities. I did find the right girl eventually though, and it was worth it. You only get to lose it once, I'd rather it was with her than some skank from a club.

    Yeah it's awkward on your first time but if she's the right girl she'll be understanding of it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't get why I messed up so bad.
    Not me saying this but I've been told numerous times that I'm a good looking lad (inb4 told my mum) I played rugby back in secondary school and am still very athletic. I went to house parties all the time but maybe lacked the confidence to pull any girls.

    Now I've finished school and I'm on my gap year (defer entry). I don't know how I'm suppose to find a girl and sex with. My dilemma is that should I just have random sex before I head off to university or wait till I met a decent girl (which will probalbly be at university).

    If I go down the first route I don't know what I'm gonna do. Like I'm bloody 19 and a lad so it will be awkward as hellwhen I don't know the hell I'm doing when the sexing happens. The second route is kind of the same but arghh I'm oh so confused.

    Argh I just started thinking about this whole thing again when my mate said that the two girls that were staying at his house were DTF me before I left. Oh man.
    So wait, what happens when you lose your virginity? You certainly don't become more attractive. Don't waste yourself with a random chick. If and when you meet the right girl, you might regret not waiting. And seriously, don't worry about not knowing how to 'sex' someone the first time. There's no 'right way' to it, it should come naturally. I'm sure it would be even easier with someone you love or at least find special because it will come with feelings.
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    watch some porn
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    (Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen)
    OP has any other female but your mother told you that your good looking? Mother's aren't the best judge
    LMFAO........
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    LMFAO........
    Dunno why thats is funny if I said 'inb4 someone says only your mum' in OP
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    if it wasn't your mum i bet it was your dad
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    Wow you must be on the slightly depressed side because you sound messed up bro, chill aint no girl running away. Whats the rush? Is there a horse chasing after you or suming?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Dunno why thats is funny if I said 'inb4 someone says only your mum' in OP
    sorry, but your making too big of a deal. Your making out sex to be the holy grail, when clearly it isn't, just have fun while you can and before you have to settle..
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    You're acting like you're 50. Why is it such a bad thing to be a virgin at a perfectly fine age? If you do have any sexual experiences in the future, they won't be THAT bad, even if you don't know what you're doing because you must know the basic principles...
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    Just dont worry about it. Concentrate on other things. Hobbies, Intrests etc... sex isnt important as it seems.
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    (Original post by beecher)
    if it wasn't your mum i bet it was your dad
    Lol, my dad is dead but good joke mate
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    If your mum tells you you're good-looking...you're not.

    And your grammar is awful too!
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    Don't judge yourself based off how much sex you have.
 
 
 
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