Is this a cheesy way to chat up girls?

Reply 20

No, just no.

That would be creepy if some random guy came up to me on public transport and started chatting me up asking random questions and just start ignoring you after a while and won't really be interested in talking. An hoping I reach wherever I'm going soon so I can get away from this guy.

Reply 22

Sabriella

10

Original post by ScORTED

Sound advice! Although there are those women who will politely smile at any weirdo who smiles at them so be careful not be chatting up someone who is totally disinterested but too polite to say otherwise.

This would be me. (See above posts of mine xD)

Reply 23

LazyWorseThanInfidel

14

mate if she thinks your attractive you can say anything to a girl and they just giggle and start stuttering

so just flirt your ass off

my personal approach is just to use normal small talk but big time flirt style they fricking love it

Chalenge accepted!

Girls, answer me this:

What kind of places would you find it appropriate for a guy to approach you and ask you out? The library? The shopping mall? Where would you be most likely to say yes to a guy?

Reply 26

Young Spade

13

I highly doubt that would work. What would probably happen would be she getting really uncomfortable and either getting up or asking you to leave. I don't think the subway or a form of public transport is the best place to pick up a girl.

Reply 27

History-Student

16

Original post by ScORTED

Sound advice! Although there are those women who will politely smile at any weirdo who smiles at them so be careful not be chatting up someone who is totally disinterested but too polite to say otherwise.

Some of the best marriages happen that way.

Reply 28

ScORTED

3

Original post by Sabriella

This would be me. (See above posts of mine xD)

Kinda sweet though, I seem to attract the nutters myself, although not by smiling in fact I usually look quite intimidating :confused:

Reply 29

im so academic

15

Original post by SummerSofas

on public transport i was thinking about sitting next to a cutie and saying "hey, i know you from somewhere, where do you know me from"

her "i don't think i know you.."

me *asks questions about her and sits down with her*

too cheesy?

"Yeah I remember you from last night's Crimewatch."
*calls police*

Reply 30

Jadelyndsey

18

Original post by SummerSofas

on public transport i was thinking about sitting next to a cutie and saying "hey, i know you from somewhere, where do you know me from"

her "i don't think i know you.."

me *asks questions about her and sits down with her*

too cheesy?

...No matter how confident you seemed, or how good looking you were, I would politely say "Oh sorry this is my stop, bye!"

Not only is this idea full of cheese, it's slightly scary.

Reply 31

The Mothman

10

"do you ever watch crimewatch" could possibly be the creepiest chat up line ever

Reply 32

ScORTED

3

Original post by im so academic

"Yeah I remember you from last night's Crimewatch."
*calls police*

actually laughed out loud at that one :lolz:

Reply 33

ilickbatteries

15

Original post by Charlottelisabeth

Yes it's cheesy. Why is it nearly always on transport that guys need help on chatting up girls?! Any girl would find it wierd and reject a guy who even chats to them on public transport. And the whole 'hey don't I know you from somewhere?' is just.pure.lame :/

Girls aren't interested in being chatted up to on public transport, they just want to get to their destination without any hiccups or some desperate guy talking to them. I know it's harsh, but it's the TRUTH. Plus public transport is a really public place to chat someone up and all the girl is going to be thinking is 'please god let no-one be able to hear him embarassing me like this'.

So a bus is too public, but a club isn't... :rolleyes:

I don't chat girls up on buses, but I'm pretty sure the whole "it's awkward thing" is completely dependent on how attractive an individual is, not the situation.

Girls are just as shallow as they say boys are, IMO.

Reply 34

Charlottelisabeth

8

Original post by ilickbatteries

So a bus is too public, but a club isn't... :rolleyes:

I don't chat girls up on buses, but I'm pretty sure the whole "it's awkward thing" is completely dependent on how attractive an individual is, not the situation.

Girls are just as shallow as they say boys are, IMO.

Well at least in a club others can't really hear anyone but the people they're standing next to basically. In a club you can get some privacy and chat to the guy and actually get away from other people, where else in a bus everyone else on the bus is all around you in a pretty silent environment where even a whisper would be heard.

I don't see how I'm shallow in what I said, it's perfectly justified. I agree that a lot of girls are just as shallow as guys but not all of us are, and the same with guys, not all of them are shallow, and I'm certainly not shallow. What a generalised statement you made!

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Reply 35

ButterflyWishes

that happened me on the tube yesterday, a guy sat down beside me and said 'are you from around here' then he asked me quistions bout myself. was pretty cringey tbhonest.

Reply 36

SummerSofas

OP

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Original post by ButterflyWishes

that happened me on the tube yesterday, a guy sat down beside me and said 'are you from around here' then he asked me quistions bout myself. was pretty cringey tbhonest.

he obviously finds you attractive, isn't that a nice thing?

Reply 37

Nepene

10

Original post by anoushka1

feminine matter?? i dont know about most girls but if a random guy started talking to me about menstrual cycles I would be veryyyyy scared :tongue:

Yes, avoid talking about sex to someone you just met.

I meant something like, ask her about relationship drama, about fashion, about pets, something simple and cute.

Reply 38

NaturalDisaster

15

If she thinks you're hot, she'll be glad to chat to you. If she doesn't then she'll just sit there feeling awkward and praying to God for you to leave her. And never, ever ask if she was in *insert destination here* on a "business trip". A guy on a plane asked me that when I was 15! I wanted to slap him. But yeah, unless she keeps glancing over at you and then looking away quickly, she's not interested and you shouldn't talk to her cos she just wants to be left alone.

Reply 39

NaturalDisaster

15

Original post by Anonymous

Girls, answer me this:

What kind of places would you find it appropriate for a guy to approach you and ask you out? The library? The shopping mall? Where would you be most likely to say yes to a guy?

Anywhere they're not appearing anon perhaps? :lol:

I'm shallow, depends on how hot the guy is. I'm going to say no to the shopping mall and a probable no to the library. If a guy cut in on me while I was reading and started chatting me up I'd hit him with the book and tell him to get stuffed. I hate being disturbed while I'm reading, possibly one of the most annoying things ever. Don't know about anyone else though.

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