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    once per week
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    12.00%
    once every 10 days
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    8.00%
    once every fortnight
    1
    4.00%
    twice per week
    2
    8.00%
    3 times per week
    12
    48.00%
    once per month
    1
    4.00%
    once every 3 weeks
    4
    16.00%

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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    What do you think they do? THey mastrubate
    My point exactly. So you don't need sex, you need ejaculation, and you really really want sex.

    I'm just going to ignore your ridiculous views on which women aren't 'good' enough for you, because you'll probably realise soon enough that beauty is subjective, and when you fall in love with someone every part of them is beautiful to you, and love is what's important in life, not getting laid. And if you don't, I did my best.
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    i dont act like this IRL though.

    And I get laid all time when I try IRL. But I rarely try. I only tired in phases when I made efforts and experiments.
    Lol that's absolute bull. If you got laid everytime you tried, then you wouldn't need to make all these strange threads ...
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    (Original post by ihatecricket)
    I totally agree with you! I couldnt pay for sex, and then treat the woman like a piece of meat its so inhumane.

    Sex for me is all about intimacy, and I dont imagine you can get that from a prostitute!!

    This guy is an *rse hole
    Yay! A nice person! That's rare on TSR, and the world lol
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    i dont act like this IRL though.

    And I get laid all time when I try IRL. But I rarely try. I only tired in phases when I made efforts and experiments.
    Then. Get off the ****ing computer, go out and try and leave us alone!
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    (Original post by IndigoRockGirl)
    My point exactly. So you don't need sex, you need ejaculation, and you really really want sex.

    I'm just going to ignore your ridiculous views on which women aren't 'good' enough for you, because you'll probably realise soon enough that beauty is subjective, and when you fall in love with someone every part of them is beautiful to you, and love is what's important in life, not getting laid. And if you don't, I did my best.
    I dont think you got anything I said in this thread.

    I can mastubate til the day I die and kill my sex drive every time enough so I dont need a female for sex.

    However I enjoy to ecjaulate on and tocuh hot females. Minimally I would like to do this 2x per week.

    Off course desire and need to ejaculate is physiological alone or with female, man needs to do it if not it happens when he sleeps.

    For me hiring a hot prostitute is like ordering a nice kebab. Its something I enjoy and want to have every now and then. I buy the best kebabs but cant afford them every day.
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    (Original post by sarahthegemini)
    Lol that's absolute bull. If you got laid everytime you tried, then you wouldn't need to make all these strange threads ...
    I tried abroad. It was easy.

    I never really tried at home
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    (Original post by ihatecricket)
    I totally agree with you! I couldnt pay for sex, and then treat the woman like a piece of meat its so inhumane.

    Sex for me is all about intimacy, and I dont imagine you can get that from a prostitute!!

    This guy is an *rse hole
    well a few points.

    Im more into blowjobs than sex and ive never heard of an intimate blowjob lmfao

    If Im payig money to ahve sex im gonna do what the hell i can for my money to get me off becuase I am paying for her body. I am not paying for intimacy.

    Its a business deal I am paying for sex acts she is selling her body.

    NOw good, bad or evil the fact is she is the one selling it. Some off these girls make more money in a month than most will make in 10 years. Selling their soul to the devil maybe so.
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    I dont think you got anything I said in this thread.

    I can mastubate til the day I die and kill my sex drive every time enough so I dont need a female for sex.

    However I enjoy to ecjaulate on and tocuh hot females. Minimally I would like to do this 2x per week.

    Off course desire and need to ejaculate is physiological alone or with female, man needs to do it if not it happens when he sleeps.

    For me hiring a hot prostitute is like ordering a nice kebab. Its something I enjoy and want to have every now and then. I buy the best kebabs but cant afford them every day.
    I understand all of that, and I have from the beginning. I personally believe that sex should be between two people who love each other, and I don't think it should be considered an appetite, in the same way as food is. I think there's something sacred about it. Just my opinion :dontknow:
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    well a few points.

    Im more into blowjobs than sex and ive never heard of an intimate blowjob lmfao

    If Im payig money to ahve sex im gonna do what the hell i can for my money to get me off becuase I am paying for her body. I am not paying for intimacy.

    Its a business deal I am paying for sex acts she is selling her body.

    NOw good, bad or evil the fact is she is the one selling it. Some off these girls make more money in a month than most will make in 10 years. Selling their soul to the devil maybe so.
    If you believe it's wrong then why are you participating in it?! Because you feel it's not your fault? You're adding to the demand!
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    (Original post by IndigoRockGirl)
    I understand all of that, and I have from the beginning. I personally believe that sex should be between two people who love each other, and I don't think it should be considered an appetite, in the same way as food is. I think there's something sacred about it. Just my opinion :dontknow:
    Completely behind you. Sex shouldn't be a worthless act...
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    (Original post by IndigoRockGirl)
    I understand all of that, and I have from the beginning. I personally believe that sex should be between two people who love each other, and I don't think it should be considered an appetite, in the same way as food is. I think there's something sacred about it. Just my opinion :dontknow:
    I quite consiously aware that since I left high school at 16 I have had no desire for a gf. Weird or not. I just got to about 16 and felt nothing in terms of relating to or having a gf. Off course I recall having crushes during high shcool up to about 14-15 pretty strong.

    But then by 18. Dead. NO desire for anything or feelings of ''love'' etc...I really just dont feel anthing. I do get horny for girls. Just have no interest in people in general tbh.

    Perhaps schizoid I think and perhaps suffer from schizoid hunger?!?

    ''Schizoid sexualityPeople with SPD are sometimes sexually apathetic, though they do not normally suffer from anorgasmia. Many schizoids have a normal sex drive but some prefer to masturbate rather than deal with the social aspects of finding a sexual partner. Therefore, their need for sex may appear to be less than those who do not have SPD, as individuals with SPD prefer to remain alone and detached. When having sex, individuals with SPD often feel that their personal space is being violated, and they commonly feel that masturbation or sexual abstinence is preferable to the emotional closeness they must tolerate when having sex.[20][21] Significantly broadening this picture are notable exceptions of SPD individuals who engage in occasional or even frequent sexual activities with others.[22]

    Harry Guntrip[23] describes the "secret sexual affair" entered into by some married schizoid individuals as an attempt to reduce the quantity of emotional intimacy focused within a single relationship, a sentiment echoed by Karen Horney's resigned personality who may exclude sex as being "too intimate for a permanent relationship, and instead satisfy his sexual needs with a stranger. Conversely he may more or less restrict a relationship to merely sexual contacts and not share other experiences with the partner."[24] More recently, Jeffrey Seinfeld, professor of social work at New York University, has published a volume on SPD[25] in which he details examples of "schizoid hunger" which may manifest as sexual promiscuity. Seinfeld provides an example of a schizoid woman who would covertly attend various bars to meet men for the purposes of gaining impersonal sexual gratification, an act, says Seinfeld, which alleviated her feelings of hunger and emptiness.

    Salman Akhtar[26] describes this dynamic interplay of overt versus covert sexuality and motivations of some SPD individuals with greater accuracy. Rather than following the narrow proposition that schizoid individuals are either sexual or asexual, Akhtar suggests that these forces may both be present in an individual despite their rather contradictory aims. For Akhtar, therefore, a clinically accurate picture of schizoid sexuality must include both the overt signs: "asexual, sometimes celibate; free of romantic interests; averse to sexual gossip and innuendo," along with possible covert manifestations of "secret voyeuristic and pornographic interests; vulnerable to erotomania; tendency towards compulsive masturbation and perversions,"[26] although none of these necessarily apply to all people with SPD.

    ''

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid



    I relate to that a lot
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Completely behind you. Sex shouldn't be a worthless act...
    Who are you to say what it should and shouldn't be for anyone else?



    I find it surprising that people can't see that there's a quite obvious difference between paying someone to **** you and someone ****ing you because you both want to.


    Paying is like cheating in a game and removes some/lots/all of the satisfaction involved in 'winning'. That and, unlike some of you, I believe that you can get a far greater degree of 'intimacy' (something that people seem to be agreeing is important or even 'necessary') with a one night stand than you can with a hooker.



    Regarding the original question, if I'm actually in close proximity to the person I'm ****ing then multiple times a day is desirable/'minimum'. I find it kinda odd that there's not even an option for once a day. If your libido is that weak at such a young age it's probably the sign of some kinda problem.
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
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    Maybe you should seek some counselling for this, you might find life a lot more rewarding if you did have the desire for a loving relationship :dontknow:
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    (Original post by concubine)


    I find it surprising that people can't see that there's a quite obvious difference between paying someone to **** you and someone ****ing you because you both want to.
    Of course everyone can see that :lolwut: Who are you saying can't see that?
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    (Original post by concubine)
    Who are you to say what it should and shouldn't be for anyone else?

    I find it surprising that people can't see that there's a quite obvious difference between paying someone to **** you and someone ****ing you because you both want to.
    It's just my personal opinion...
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    (Original post by sarahthegemini)
    Lol that's absolute bull. If you got laid everytime you tried, then you wouldn't need to make all these strange threads ...
    Totally agree Sarah lol

    (Original post by IndigoRockGirl)
    Yay! A nice person! That's rare on TSR, and the world lol
    Erm, thanks lol @ kitten riding on turtle
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    In a relationship, the mimimal is whenever i want it, if i want it, there is no reason to say no.
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    (Original post by IndigoRockGirl)
    Maybe you should seek some counselling for this, you might find life a lot more rewarding if you did have the desire for a loving relationship :dontknow:
    Its the way i feel you dont get treatment for it lol.

    Its not a broken leg you mend.

    Its like some people are gay, some people are asexual.

    I think I am asexual. I really was I never desired sex, still dont really moreso blowjobs and some sex acts. I have high perversions Manifesting in high pornogrpahy addiction and desire to perform sex acts with disregard for intimacy/.
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    (Original post by ihatecricket)
    Totally agree Sarah lol



    Erm, thanks lol @ kitten riding on turtle
    How cute is it? :3
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    (Original post by bhoytoy)
    Its the way i feel you dont get treatment for it lol.

    Its not a broken leg you mend.

    Its like some people are gay, some people are asexual.

    I think I am asexual. I really was I never desired sex, still dont really moreso blowjobs and some sex acts. I have high perversions Manifesting in high pornogrpahy addiction and desire to perform sex acts with disregard for intimacy/.
    Being asexual means you are not attracted to men or women. You say you are attracted to women. You are not asexual.
 
 
 
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