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    (Original post by Simplicity)
    It depends where you live?

    In the UK paying for sex isn't illegal. I assuming OP is from the US. But, you are correct in that sex worker calls themselves escorts to get around it.
    yeh your right sorry, i misread the act so yeh its legal for all the UK.
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    Ok so this is the website: http://www.passionvip.com/

    The girls on there aren't even more attractive than me, just sluttier. Ugh.
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    Ok so this is the website: http://www.passionvip.com/

    The girls on there aren't even more attractive than me, just sluttier. Ugh.
    Wow OP. Hmm, I would dump him if I was you.

    Personally, if he went to some strip club, then at least you could make an argument about not being clingly. But, seriously this?

    You are worth more than this. Even if you stay with him for the next few years, he probably going to cheat with you multiple times with escorts. Also, in away guys like to sleep with slutty girls, just not date them.

    P.S. Read the reviews on the site. Like click on random people and read them. Obviously they are paying for sex.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok so this is the website: http://www.passionvip.com/

    The girls on there aren't even more attractive than me, just sluttier. Ugh.
    sorry but that does look like he went for sex, can't really see him paying 150 quid for an hour long dinner date.

    Have you had unprotected sex with him since? if so might wana consider getting tested just to be safe.
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    (Original post by Darth Stewie)
    sorry but that does look like he went for sex, can't really see him paying 150 quid for an hour long dinner date.

    Have you had unprotected sex with him since? if so might wana consider getting tested just to be safe.
    Well I don't know if he has actually hired one, he may or may not have gone after his mate said he couldn't go, or whether he's used the service before.

    No I haven't, we are long-distance. I can understand if he's missing the sex but if I can manage not to go and **** another guy then I hardly think it's unrealistic to expect him not to replace me with some escort.

    Not sure how I should handle this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well I don't know if he has actually hired one, he may or may not have gone after his mate said he couldn't go, or whether he's used the service before.

    No I haven't, we are long-distance. I can understand if he's missing the sex but if I can manage not to go and **** another guy then I hardly think it's unrealistic to expect him not to replace me with some escort.

    Not sure how I should handle this.
    well presumably he has been thinking about it for a while, and has probably discussed it with his friend. Can't see him sending a message out of the blue that they should hire an escort together

    It is probably more a excitement/thrill thing rather than sheer sexual desire. If he didn't go through with it then that might not just be because his friend didn't want to (he might enjoy fantasizing about it but in reality he might not act on it) but you probably should confront him, don't think you really need to be soft about it just tell him everything you know and see what he has to say.
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    (Original post by Darth Stewie)
    well presumably he has been thinking about it for a while, and has probably discussed it with his friend. Can't see him sending a message out of the blue that they should hire an escort together

    It is probably more a excitement/thrill thing rather than sheer sexual desire. If he didn't go through with it then that might not just be because his friend didn't want to (he might enjoy fantasizing about it but in reality he might not act on it) but you probably should confront him, don't think you really need to be soft about it just tell him everything you know and see what he has to say.
    Thanks, I don't want to admit that I looked at his messages so I am going to try and be subtle about it, like first of all ask what he was up to that night. I was using his computer which I do all the time, and his facebook was on, I'm just too curious for my own good.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok so this is the website: http://www.passionvip.com/

    The girls on there aren't even more attractive than me, just sluttier. Ugh.
    Yeah thats an escort site - the fact that it offeres incalls pretty much garuntees that the escort is going to sleep with the person paying.

    However i still dont know what an escort bar is. Or what thats supposed to be.

    Ok OP they may have just been playing around with the fantasy of meeting up with this suoper sexy girl and having no strings sex for an hour. I and people ive known been known to do this, run round internet website and think "ooh yeah id do her" But I (and niether have other that i know of) have never gone through with it. Its a fantasy, a disrespectful fantasy yes but a fantasy nonetheless. A bloke moment i guess.

    However i still think you need to bring this up with him. Even if its just to explain what an "escort bar" is
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    (Original post by silverbolt)
    Yeah thats an escort site - the fact that it offeres incalls pretty much garuntees that the escort is going to sleep with the person paying.

    However i still dont know what an escort bar is. Or what thats supposed to be.

    Ok OP they may have just been playing around with the fantasy of meeting up with this suoper sexy girl and having no strings sex for an hour. I and people ive known been known to do this, run round internet website and think "ooh yeah id do her" But I (and niether have other that i know of) have never gone through with it. Its a fantasy, a disrespectful fantasy yes but a fantasy nonetheless. A bloke moment i guess.

    However i still think you need to bring this up with him. Even if its just to explain what an "escort bar" is
    Actually it's not so difficult to believe for me, because I heard that at his best mate's stag do he spent a lot of money on strippers. We weren't together then, so I didn't care.
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    Actually it's not so difficult to believe for me, because I heard that at his best mate's stag do he spent a lot of money on strippers. We weren't together then, so I didn't care.
    Well i wouldnt pay too much attention to that. Just because a woman took her clothes off is not indicative of him paying for sex. many guys go to stripclubs/see strippers but not all of them will pay for sex.

    However i think on this you should tackle him with it.
 
 
 
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