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    (Original post by Pink Bullets)
    One day, avert your eyes from the hottest, loudest, most popular, most scantily clad girls you see, and see who else is around. That's where they'll be.

    Try it.
    What would we see then? Fat girls?
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    (Original post by britishgoose01)
    cheer up and make yourself a ham toastie
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    I'm not too sure what you mean really. The majority seem like nice, pleasant girls who just aren't guzzling down drinks every night. They're not uncommon...

    That said, there are a lot of 'anonymous' girls on here who have cheated because he did this or that, slept with this guy then that guy, wanted to do things with her boyfriends housemate or best friend etc... So maybe they're not nice at all.

    Nah, i'm sure the vast majority are lovely and the sort of people you could meet in everyday life. I imagine Lucia, Alawhisp, ratherchloe, Sazzy etc are those type of girls in real life, y'know the sort you think are just nice, genuine people you'd want as a friend (or more, depends on your taste I guess).

    I could've easily named more than four there, for what it's worth, so don't expect these type of girls to be uncommon.
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    TSR girls are part of our real life
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    TSR has plenty of nice girls who are shy/reserved and have never had a boyfriend etc. Why do girls like this not exist in real life, I find it impossible to meet anyone suited to me. Pretty much every girl I meet has no interest in me at all, and the small minority of girls who do like me are not at university and not really girls I can have a conversation with. Where can I meet girls like this at uni? I've tried book club etc.
    You mean sheltered, middle class teenage girls who are, despite being very average to look at being slavered over by sheltered, middle class virgin boys?
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    TSR has plenty of nice girls who are shy/reserved and have never had a boyfriend etc. Why do girls like this not exist in real life, I find it impossible to meet anyone suited to me.
    You want someone shy and reserved..? But also someone who has never had a boyfriend.. So basically you want some inexperienced, timid little girl Why does it matter if they've had a boyfriend? Having an ex doesn't suddenly mean you're a bad person and not relationship material.. I know I'd be hesitant to get involved with a man who hadn't had any relationship experience, there are so many negative things that come along with the "first love" experience..

    (Original post by turbocharged)
    Pretty much every girl I meet has no interest in me at all, and the small minority of girls who do like me are not at university and not really girls I can have a conversation with.
    So, make yourself more interesting then.. Focus on you, not on finding a girl. The more desperate you are, the less likely you are to attract anyone. Find hobbies, take up new interests, join clubs, whatever.. And approach people. Talk to people! Males and females. Talk to shy people and loud people. It might actually surprise you when you realise that some loud people are also lovely people.

    (Original post by turbocharged)
    Where can I meet girls like this at uni? I've tried book club etc.
    They're everywhere. I mean, seriously. And there are some confident, gregarious women who are also wonderful people.. Focusing only on shy and quiet women is pointless. As someone else said, shy and quiet people are normally not that quiet when they are with their friends. So it sounds more like you're looking for someone socially awkward and incredibly timid, and that kind of person doesn't really socialise at all, hence why you'll struggle to meet them.. And when you do meet them, they'll only get freaked out by a stranger talking to them anyway

    Stop judging women as some kind of homogeneous group.. Everyone is different. There will be people out there that you are compatible with, but if you close yourself off to huge numbers of women according to some preconceived judgement you've made of their personality, you're doing yourself no favours.


    (Original post by Schmucks)
    Nah, i'm sure the vast majority are lovely and the sort of people you could meet in everyday life. I imagine Lucia, Alawhisp, ratherchloe, Sazzy etc are those type of girls in real life, y'know the sort you think are just nice, genuine people you'd want as a friend (or more, depends on your taste I guess).
    Aw Schmucks <3 I'm an absolute cow, really. I just hide it well.
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    I think you have been speaking to girls that are not real and they will never exist good look finding the right one mate :P
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    TSR has plenty of nice girls who are shy/reserved and have never had a boyfriend etc. Why do girls like this not exist in real life, I find it impossible to meet anyone suited to me. Pretty much every girl I meet has no interest in me at all, and the small minority of girls who do like me are not at university and not really girls I can have a conversation with. Where can I meet girls like this at uni? I've tried book club etc.
    no offence but this makes you sound like a bit of a jerk...
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    I don't drink and rarely went to pubs or clubs but managed to have a few girlfriends over the past 2 years. I am actually quite surprised how many girls I talked to hated clubs and drinking as much as I do it was so refreshing being around sober people.
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    (Original post by alawhisp)
    You want someone shy and reserved..? But also someone who has never had a boyfriend.. So basically you want some inexperienced, timid little girl Why does it matter if they've had a boyfriend? Having an ex doesn't suddenly mean you're a bad person and not relationship material.. I know I'd be hesitant to get involved with a man who hadn't had any relationship experience, there are so many negative things that come along with the "first love" experience..

    So, make yourself more interesting then.. Focus on you, not on finding a girl. The more desperate you are, the less likely you are to attract anyone. Find hobbies, take up new interests, join clubs, whatever.. And approach people. Talk to people! Males and females. Talk to shy people and loud people. It might actually surprise you when you realise that some loud people are also lovely people.

    They're everywhere. I mean, seriously. And there are some confident, gregarious women who are also wonderful people.. Focusing only on shy and quiet women is pointless. As someone else said, shy and quiet people are normally not that quiet when they are with their friends. So it sounds more like you're looking for someone socially awkward and incredibly timid, and that kind of person doesn't really socialise at all, hence why you'll struggle to meet them.. And when you do meet them, they'll only get freaked out by a stranger talking to them anyway

    Stop judging women as some kind of homogeneous group.. Everyone is different. There will be people out there that you are compatible with, but if you close yourself off to huge numbers of women according to some preconceived judgement you've made of their personality, you're doing yourself no favours.

    Aw Schmucks <3 I'm an absolute cow, really. I just hide it well.
    I don't really care how many boyfriends/sexual partners etc she has had, but if she doesn't meet many guys then obviously she is going to place more value on a guy that shows interest in her. Loud girls don't want someone who is shy and a bit awkward.

    I joined loads of clubs at the start of term and have tried my best to make friends, male and female, I haven't gone out looking for a girlfriend, but I find it hard to get involved in conversation. I can tell pretty quickly if I'm not going to get on with someone and sadly that applies to most people I talk to. I suppose the best way to get talking to people is while out clubbing etc, then I'm more talkative thanks to alcohol, but annoyingly my housemates don't go out much this year compared to last year and when they do they try their best to not let me know about it.
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    It's rubbish. I've been on there for months, sent messages to hundreds of girls. I barely get any replies and have met up with one girl so far who is nice but I don't really see her as a potential girlfriend. Most girls are only on there for attention, they don't want to find a boyfriend on there.
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    It's rubbish. I've been on there for months, sent messages to hundreds of girls. I barely get any replies and have met up with one girl so far who is nice but I don't really see her as a potential girlfriend. Most girls are only on there for attention, they don't want to find a boyfriend on there.

    stop looking so hard! I think somebody is more likely to come along when you're not looking, maybe feels less forced. You get me?
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    TSR has plenty of nice girls who are shy/reserved and have never had a boyfriend etc. Why do girls like this not exist in real life, I find it impossible to meet anyone suited to me. Pretty much every girl I meet has no interest in me at all, and the small minority of girls who do like me are not at university and not really girls I can have a conversation with. Where can I meet girls like this at uni? I've tried book club etc.
    1. they're shy/reserved so chances are, you won't meet them

    2. they won't be so readily tell you that they've never had a boyfriend

    3. no interest in you=your problem. maybe learn the game
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    (Original post by alawhisp)
    Aw Schmucks <3 I'm an absolute cow, really. I just hide it well.
    It's always more exciting to seem nice and sweet and turn into a devil, don't worry.
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    (Original post by lizpop)
    stop looking so hard! I think somebody is more likely to come along when you're not looking, maybe feels less forced. You get me?
    This can be so true seriously. Even when going on the 'pull'....its frequently so much better to approach the night with....'im here to have an awesome time'. Women just open up to you, when you are genuinely having a great time...
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    (Original post by joey11223)
    they spend most of their time at secret underground gatherings where they sacrifice babies to the blood God.

    seriously....some folk on here are suspiciously kind/empathetic etc...they must have a yang to balance out their yin? (this is rather ironic statement to make when I reflect on myself...)
    The yang is that some girls (and guys) on here just REEK of insecurity and I'm-not-comfortable-being-womanly-ness.

    Just look at all the catty references to beautiful women on this thread if you don't believe me. 'Shinier models' or 'scantily clad' i.e. I'm jealous of prettier women.
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    We ARE actually people here you know, we're not just molecules floating in cyber space :P:
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    (Original post by turbocharged)
    TSR has plenty of nice girls who are shy/reserved and have never had a boyfriend etc. Why do girls like this not exist in real life, I find it impossible to meet anyone suited to me. Pretty much every girl I meet has no interest in me at all, and the small minority of girls who do like me are not at university and not really girls I can have a conversation with. Where can I meet girls like this at uni? I've tried book club etc.
    Why do people start threads with faux-incredulous titles like "WHY DO TSR GIRLS [LOL] NOT EXIST IN REAL LIFE?" when you're clearly not actually querying the existence or lack thereof of "TSR girls" (still lol'ing) but rather taking a moment to ***** and whine about your inexperience of them? Couldn't you have just used the rather more honest subject line found in the bolded text (maybe with "girls like this" amended simply to "shy girls", you know).

    That aside...

    Are you really asking why shy people are difficult to find?

    Is that seriously what you're asking here, Monsieur OP?

    Why are people characterised by lack of interaction with others difficult to interact with if you are an "other"?

    Why are people who generally do not speak much to those they do not know difficult to pin down for a conversation when they don't know you and vice versa?

    Why are people who don't go out difficult to find pissed up in clubs?

    THE ANSWERS TO SUCH PUZZLES - AND MORE - TO BE FOUND IN MY UPCOMING BOOK "MIRACLES OF THE UNIVERSE".
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    Online persona =/= real life persona in many cases.
 
 
 
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