i know it's really hard talking to parents about these things but you need to tell them. It's not your fault what happened. Your parents are not going to tell you off they will just support you. He took advantage of you at a young age and you should have to live a life if a lie and feel it as a burden. DOnt tell the girl as this will unecessary problems I honesty think you should sit your parents and explain what happened that night or if you don't want to tell them. Face to face write a letter and leave in their room but please tell them the truth sooner than later I promise you will feel better and relief. It's about you okay not the boy remember your not alone okay. Be brave x
Imagine the guilt knowing you could of prevented it.
Anonymous please, lots of people from my school and lots of my friends are on here, and I don't want any of them to know about this
So in September, I was raped by a boy in my year, who is 16. I was 15 at the time (I was 16 a few days ago). No one knows about this, apart from a few of my closest friends, but now, this boy is seeing a girl in my year, who doesn't know. Do you think I should tell her what happened? All help appreciated, thankyou x
I do want him to be punished, but I also don't want to have to talk to him at all about any of this, or have to see him at all, so I feel that telling an adult will mean that I'd have to talk to him. And it's not that my parents will be annoyed at me, we just don't have that kind of relationship.
Sorry everyone, my posts are taking a while to be moderated, but I've tried to reply to them all
For everyone saying I don't have evidence, please read my other posts, I have evidence of him admitting it over Facebook, quite a long conversation infact, and I have it all printscreened on my computer/memory stick
TELL THE POLICE NOW !!!
In a couple of years he will leave the school, you will not know where he is and prosecution will be harder. Atm you know where he is, you know what he does and you can give him what he deserves.
All the best and stay strong...... If you need help, Kutta is here
Yes, that is partly the reason, but also because I dont feel that my parents and I have that kind of relationships, and I wouldnt want my siblings to find out either
He can't deny it as he has sent me messages over facebook where he admitted to it, and I have them printscreened and saved on my computer/memory stick
At you OP, I am sorry to hear this. I would advise against telling the girl. She will just claim you are jealous of her, and angry that he dumped you, etc. etc.
Plus what will it achieve? You might save one girl but can you save the one after that, or the next? The only real solution would be to tell the police.
Concerning your parents, arrange to go sleep over at a friends house before you go leave print outs of the conversation on a table or something with a note saying i'm sorry i couldn't tell you or something like that. They won't get mad at you.
And finally a huge hug for you for what you're going through. I'm sorry if i come across rude, but after reading this i wanted to see if i could help.
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Its not just "Its over now, im moving away" if he has done it once, at such a young age he WILL do it again!