A valid if regrettable point.(Original post by Amhorangerdgerriug)
Yes it is. He wasn't attracted to her then, he is now. What's the problem? You cannot deny that physical attraction is important in a relationship.
I don't understand why it is acceptable to criticise men for liking women who are physically attractive (genetic) but it is fine to be attracted to intelligence (also genetic). Attraction is not objectification, it is the oldest and most natural biochemical phenomenon.
OP: Only go for it if you have no conflicting feelings about the fact you turned her down when she 'wasn't pretty enough', also that message makes me think she's become a right strumpet and just wants to use you to show she can now get what she want's etc, and all those things people who become noticeably more attractive think and do because of it.
Whatever you do just don't be an arse about it and there shall be no regrets.
A girl sent me this message what should i do? watch
- 28-03-2013 20:51
- 28-03-2013 20:57
ask her if she still feels the same as back then, and she says yes, tell her you need some time to figure out how you feel.
- 28-03-2013 21:01