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    Basically, no specific nightclubs recommended, apart from Ministry of Sound?

    (P.S.: Also, I really really really don't want to spend too much time on this. No strategies, surfing, random exploration, seduction techniques or crepe like that. That's why I am looking for something as straightforward as possible, where it is obvious that the girls are there for sex.)
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Basically, no specific nightclubs recommended, apart from Ministry of Sound?

    (P.S.: Also, I really really really don't want to spend too much time on this. No strategies, surfing, random exploration, seduction techniques or crepe like that. That's why I am looking for something as straightforward as possible, where it is obvious that the girls are there for sex.)
    To be honest that sounds so desperate.
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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    To be honest that sounds so desperate.
    I don't care. I am not a person endowed with heaps of time. My career is already taking almost 16-18 hours a day, which is why I don't want to have a too long "exploration period", i.e. I just want to try it and get over with it as soon as possible.
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    (Original post by YOLO.)
    You should only have sex if you love someone.
    love is fickle as sex is meaningless

    you are religious?
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I don't care. I am not a person endowed with heaps of time. My career is already taking almost 16-18 hours a day, which is why I don't want to have a too long "exploration period", i.e. I just want to try it and get over with it as soon as possible.
    The only place ytou can go and guarentee sex is a brothel. If you were good looking you would not even be asking this question so there is no guarentee you will find a girl willing to sleep with you after an hour of talking. Why are you so desperate for a one night stand which you will forget a week later like it never happened?
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    Just go to the dating sites which are for those who want sex.
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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    The only place ytou can go and guarentee sex is a brothel. If you were good looking you would not even be asking this question so there is no guarentee you will find a girl willing to sleep with you after an hour of talking. Why are you so desperate for a one night stand which you will forget a week later like it never happened?
    I am considering the brothel as well... (that's why I mentioned Amsterdam).

    I believe I am fairly attractive as girls approach me quite often in non-club settings (including my only girlfriend). However, I have been in a very serious relationship for the past 5 years and I always behave very very conservatively around other women. Consider that it was my girlfriend who took the first steps with me, pretty much in everything.
    I don't have confidence issues, however I think it is in my personality that I like to just take a seat and relax, and let the woman be the driver

    Now, I remember several occasions in which quite horny-looking girls did approach me, but that was AGES ago, and also quite random.

    Why so desperately? You want to know the whole story? It's quite long, but to make it as short as possible: Because I have never tried. Because I have always been very very conservative towards matters of sex. And I don't want to fully change, but just try and see what is so great about it. Whether the adrenaline rush is so gratifying. I know it may not be, but I want to TRY it with my own body, rather than listening to what others say.
    Basically, I want to fully confirm to myself (and my body) that it's not worth it... or see whether it's actually otherwise.
    Long story short: I just want to try it.
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    (Original post by ForgetMe)
    Just go to the dating sites which are for those who want sex.
    I always heard there were no real women on those websites...

    I prefer approaching in person to be honest, at events, clubs, pubs, whatever.
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    OP, you could always consider casual sex websites or clubs.
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I am considering the brothel as well... (that's why I mentioned Amsterdam).

    I believe I am fairly attractive as girls approach me quite often in non-club settings (including my only girlfriend). However, I have been in a very serious relationship for the past 5 years and I always behave very very conservatively around other women. Consider that it was my girlfriend who took the first steps with me, pretty much in everything.
    I don't have confidence issues, however I think it is in my personality that I like to just take a seat and relax, and let the woman be the driver

    Now, I remember several occasions in which quite horny-looking girls did approach me, but that was AGES ago, and also quite random.

    Why so desperately? You want to know the whole story? It's quite long, but to make it as short as possible: Because I have never tried. Because I have always been very very conservative towards matters of sex. And I don't want to fully change, but just try and see what is so great about it. Whether the adrenaline rush is so gratifying. I know it may not be, but I want to TRY it with my own body, rather than listening to what others say.
    Basically, I want to fully confirm to myself (and my body) that it's not worth it... or see whether it's actually otherwise.
    Long story short: I just want to try it.
    Okay i understand now that should have been in your first post. To be honest dont go down the brothel route then that is a whole different experience. Just go out clubbing on a regular basis say 3-4 times a month and it will happen. When it does happen you will want to do it again though.
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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    Okay i understand now that should have been in your first post. To be honest dont go down the brothel route then that is a whole different experience. Just go out clubbing on a regular basis say 3-4 times a month and it will happen. When it does happen you will want to do it again though.
    Well... I thought there might be some specific clubs or parties maybe tailored to certain age groups or personality/taste groups, to which the more "horny"/open/available women go to... also, what about university girls?

    Just random thoughts off the top of my head.
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    (Original post by YOLO.)
    You should only have sex if you love someone.
    Pretty weird thing for someone whose handle is 'YOLO' to say, isn't it?
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    (Original post by Schichtoe)
    Pretty weird thing for someone whose handle is 'YOLO' to say, isn't it?
    This
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I always heard there were no real women on those websites...

    I prefer approaching in person to be honest, at events, clubs, pubs, whatever.
    The person who told you that wasn't a real person.
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    (Original post by Schichtoe)
    Pretty weird thing for someone whose handle is 'YOLO' to say, isn't it?
    Exactly what I was thinking!

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    http://london.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/
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    dude some of these girls are freakin hot, you check out that italian girl sandra? I'm actually tempted lol
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Well... I thought there might be some specific clubs or parties maybe tailored to certain age groups or personality/taste groups, to which the more "horny"/open/available women go to... also, what about university girls?

    Just random thoughts off the top of my head.
    What about university girls? well the ages between 18-27 is when your meant have fun get out there so just aim for someone the same age as you go up to them and say hi. What do you think everyone else did when they wanted to get laid? we all go to a certain club and make a certain signal if we want sex??! its just something that happens.
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Sadly... I am out of an almost 5-year-long relationship, with the only girlfriend I ever had, and which profoundly defined every aspect of my life throughout my late teens, university and first career experiences.

    I had many changed during the past months and came to the conclusion that I really want to try this thing I have never tried before: casual sex.

    I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex. And I want to do it just for a limited time period - and then return to my usual life ambitions.

    I have been to various nightclubs before, also here in London, with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet. Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other women who are looking for the same thing?

    Do you have any recommendations of clubs?

    I also don't want to waste too much time on this. I want to stay true to myself, not engage in hours of flirting techniques, but just find other women who are naturally willing to do it.

    For this reason, I told myself that if I won't find a woman within 1-2 weeks, I might try asking an escort agency or travel to Amsterdam.

    This is an important and not so easy decision considering my personal history and values, but I just want to try it, and then never ever do it again.
    I can tell by the way your post is written that you come from some Arab/Asian country probably a so called devout Moslem here's just an example of your utter hypocracy which we hear on these forums all the time
    you all come across as belligerent, you think your better than us morally
    calling western women common and cheap but here you are trying to disguise yourself and look for casual sex from these women whilst you take a short break from your " holy morality" pathetic I wouldn't mind if you were a man about it and questioned his beliefs and opinions about other cultures but no you just want to exploit freedom of choice and then go to your mosque and deny it all and deny it for others.
 
 
 
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