Depends on the sort of club but I agree with most of what you're saying.(Original post by Like a BAWS)
I know that the correct, mature response is to say something along the lines of "People don't go to clubs jus to pull" and "If you're in a relationship with someone you should trust them 100% at all time anyway".
But the sad reality is almost all of my friends have cheated on their girlfriends when they've been clubbing, and I've seen more than my fair share of girls getting with guys when I knew they were with someone else aswell. Quite often, both the girls and guys attribute to it being a 'terrible drunken mistake' or something, and I just wonder whether they would have been better off not going to the club at all if they couldn't control their own behaviour?
Anywhere like Oceana is a meat market, but I've been to clubs where the last thing you'd want to do is "pull" because they are rave nights and everyone is on class A's.
I know people say not all people plan to pull when they go to clubs, but most people don't plan on cheating either yet it still happens. My opinion is that if you surround yourself with targets eventually you will hit something. Good people can do bad things. People just use that line as an excuse to do what they want.
If you're dating a girl who goes to places like Oceana regularly then I'd say you have a problem yeah.
But we haven't even met!