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    (Original post by danny111)
    Actually I was more thinking that she would probably choke if she tried to do it like in porn.
    Yea maybe... Still. I consider my point valid as well :P

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    (Original post by lastlullabyy)
    Agree. Porn is so horrible... There are no emotions or passsion. It's like watching a programme about fixing up a washing machine - just manual thing.
    For technique, watching the right sort of porn might not be a bad idea.

    Requires a little bit of discretion but it'd help.

    I'm guessing there are plenty of guys who wouldn't have a clue how to go down on women without the little head start porn gave them in their teens.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    He rarely touches me while I do this though
    Strange, i had some time a girl giving me oral sex and i also love giving it to a girl, but, whenever i give oral sex, or getting it, the part of the other partner touching ur head and hair, going with the fingers go through ones hair, make it extra sexy and delicious,,,

    Could ur boyfriend be sort of fridgite???
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    Anon because I don't really want people I know to see me posting about things like this!

    http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/guide...ead-101-guides

    This seems like a really good guide. I'm female and I've been told I'm pretty good, and reading this guide I think I naturally do a lot of the stuff in it, so I think it's probably quite helpful if you're not sure.

    Communication is the real key though!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon because I don't really want people I know to see me posting about things like this!

    http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/guide...ead-101-guides

    This seems like a really good guide. I'm female and I've been told I'm pretty good, and reading this guide I think I naturally do a lot of the stuff in it, so I think it's probably quite helpful if you're not sure.

    Communication is the real key though!
    Wow.

    That's like the head giving Encyclopaedia.

    Seems legit.
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    Some guys just find it pretty hard to finish from Oral. Personally, I'm the same. Feels awesome for a while, then move onto something else.

    As for the lack of noises/touching. For a guy it can be hard to know what to do, we're all aware girls don't want their head pushed down or anything, which stops a lot of less experienced/shy guys from touching the face/head/hair at all during recieving. And other than that, there's not much to reach, upper torso maybe, but again, that can feel kind of awkward for some people.

    I'd suggest that before you do it next time, just tell him to tell you when what you're doing is really working for him, and if that still doesn't work, then don't worry about it. It's not the end of the world, as other people have said, it's just the same thing as some women not being able to orgasm from penetration.
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    (Original post by Steevee)
    Some guys just find it pretty hard to finish from Oral. Personally, I'm the same. Feels awesome for a while, then move onto something else.

    As for the lack of noises/touching. For a guy it can be hard to know what to do, we're all aware girls don't want their head pushed down or anything, which stops a lot of less experienced/shy guys from touching the face/head/hair at all during recieving. And other than that, there's not much to reach, upper torso maybe, but again, that can feel kind of awkward for some people.

    I'd suggest that before you do it next time, just tell him to tell you when what you're doing is really working for him, and if that still doesn't work, then don't worry about it. It's not the end of the world, as other people have said, it's just the same thing as some women not being able to orgasm from penetration.
    It feels a bit weird to quote, but this.
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    (Original post by Caits7)
    Don't worry about it, he's probably a little nervous, even subconsciously, if you're the first person to do it.
    I was at it for 2 and a half hours once without realising and he still didnt ^_^
    Also if he's not reacting, he's probably just a bit embarrassed or nervous about getting too "appreciative", these things take time, once you both get fully used to it it should be okay
    2 1/2 hours!!!!!!

    christ you must have severe jaw ache
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    If you're at it for hours on end you're not doing it properly, you can't possibly be doing it passionately at that point and it will be like fixing a washing machine. You can't go about it mechanically, there has to be a bit of theatre and naughtiness to it. As a girl you should understand how sex is all about the atmosphere and what's going on between your ears. It's the same for boys, contrary to popular belief we're not machines
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    (Original post by silverbolt)
    2 1/2 hours!!!!!!

    christ you must have severe jaw ache
    Yeah, wasn't great ^_^
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    'crisis' :rofl:
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    Don't forget the balls and inner thighs :ninja: stroke them, rub them....just sayin'
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    A lot of blame seems to being put on OPs bad technique, but I doubt it's the case.

    Some people just can't come from oral alone, I certainly can't, I require the use of hands too. Maybe just use more hand OP?
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    My boyfriends just left and I tried going down again on him tonight after reading all your tips and posts. I spent 20 minutes giving head and during that time a very small amount of liquid came out about 9 times. Other than this he reacted no differently and didn't say it was better or worse despite following your advice :/
 
 
 
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