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    (Original post by SteveBlade)
    Basically, my sister is always calling me ugly. It's kind of lost meaning as she says it so much but my self esteem has taken a hit over it, and I think it's affected how confident I am around other people, and especially girls.

    A few people have called me good looking, but mostly my family so that doesn't really prove much to me lol. I've only had two girlfriends and I'm 19. I've always been pretty introvert, and I've only recently tried to change that, I've always put down my lack of success with girls as to me simply not putting myself out there.

    I'm 6 ft 3 and have a slim/athletic, but I'd just like to know your thoughts on my face. Also, my hair has to be long ish as I have huge ears Lol.

    PM me if you'd be cool with letting me know your feelings and I'll send you a couple of pics, I'd appreciate your thoughts, either way.
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    (Original post by SteveBlade)
    Basically, my sister is always calling me ugly. It's kind of lost meaning as she says it so much but my self esteem has taken a hit over it, and I think it's affected how confident I am around other people, and especially girls.

    A few people have called me good looking, but mostly my family so that doesn't really prove much to me lol. I've only had two girlfriends and I'm 19. I've always been pretty introvert, and I've only recently tried to change that, I've always put down my lack of success with girls as to me simply not putting myself out there.

    I'm 6 ft 3 and have a slim/athletic, but I'd just like to know your thoughts on my face. Also, my hair has to be long ish as I have huge ears Lol.

    PM me if you'd be cool with letting me know your feelings and I'll send you a couple of pics, I'd appreciate your thoughts, either way.
    Im 19 and never had a girlfriend - think how I feel
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    (Original post by Jack22031994)
    Im 19 and never had a girlfriend - think how I feel
    Well, one was just a girl who liked to play me, and enjoyed me being her doormat and the other was a girl I went out with a couple of times before ending it with her, because I couldn't get two words from her.

    So yeah, neither were any good. I've never had a "proper" relationship.
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    (Original post by SteveBlade)
    Well, one was just a girl who liked to play me, and enjoyed me being her doormat and the other was a girl I went out with a couple of times before ending it with her, because I couldn't get two words from her.

    So yeah, neither were any good. I've never had a "proper" relationship.
    oh ok - fair enough
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    PM me, I'll be brutally honest. Going by the comments so far though, you seem fine.
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    A few people have said that a full body pic is needed to get a proper idea. I've got a couple, one was really awkward and I had to stand on the bed lol. Can hardly see my face in either but you've already seen that I guess. :P Also the cam on my phone is bad. :/

    http://tinypic.com/r/huk21l/5

    http://tinypic.com/r/10csv81/5

    Only started lifting a month ago lol, so far the results aren't too visible.
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    Steve, I honestly worry about what these reactions will do to the way you think about yourself. Most of the time we get by day today without caring two figs what randomers think about us. If anyone genuinely cares for you, then it's their opinion that matters. Although I think there are some criteria which we might apply when judging the attractiveness of a face, beyond a facile evaluation I can't see what it would really achieve.

    In short, there are many handsome men out there, but their classical proportions are the only thing going for them. Women are often far more forgiving about physical discrepancies than men are, so I shouldn't worry too much.
 
 
 
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