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    Personality is part of 'looks'. Looks are part of personality. Status is part of personality, whatever exactly 'status' means.

    Personally I like confidence, humour and intelligence in a man, plus he shouldn't look like the cat just dragged him in and it helps if he has clean hair, teeth and fingernails. Oh and definitely not bad breath or a drinking habit.
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    (Original post by Fullofsurprises)
    Personality is part of 'looks'. Looks are part of personality. Status is part of personality, whatever exactly 'status' means.

    Personally I like confidence, humour and intelligence in a man, plus he shouldn't look like the cat just dragged him in and it helps if he has clean hair, teeth and fingernails. Oh and definitely not bad breath or a drinking habit.
    @Bold part, this is what I don't like about us women.

    Your threshold for not looking like a cat was just dragged in is disproportionately high.

    Pretend this man has all of the personal qualities that you describe. Does he meet your physical threshold? No? then he is equivalent to a cat being dragged in, and that is your average male...

    http://i43.tinypic.com/1gjb87.jpg
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    Moaning on TSR isn't going to change anything, if your pissed of actually do something about it. These constant threads are depressing and don't change anything.
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    Implying personality isn't what creates status-most women are attracted to personality, just not in the way you think they aren't
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    Attraction is what brings people together. Personality is needed to allow the relationship to pursue into something longterm.
    People who are just attracted with each other but 1 may have a **** personality, they would just end up as **** buddies.

    Friends with benefits work due to attraction, not personality.
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    I'm tired of people saying that personality is the priority, that's just not true, that is lying.

    I agree with everything that's said in this video, looks matter, Face and LMS:



    The main problem is that the average female is vastly more attractive to the opposite sex than the average male.
    okay, you keep believing what you believe.
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    http://s24.postimg.org/8ndrkj839/aa5b4156.jpg

    Very attractive, now her male equivalent:

    http://s22.postimg.org/qy1db4or5/G76s_DCg.png

    Very unattractive.
    I'd actually say the guy is better looking than the girl there.
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    ITT, yet again: Socially inept, pessimist teenager believes they have solved the quandary of romantic interaction.

    This got boring fifty threads ago.
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    @Bold part, this is what I don't like about us women.

    Your threshold for not looking like a cat was just dragged in is disproportionately high.

    Pretend this man has all of the personal qualities that you describe. Does he meet your physical threshold? No? then he is equivalent to a cat being dragged in, and that is your average male...

    http://i43.tinypic.com/1gjb87.jpg
    Well, he seems sweet, but he's a bit young for me. I would nearly always want the man to be at least a few years older, unless he was a really amazing guy.
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    (Original post by Isometrix)
    I'd actually say the guy is better looking than the girl there.
    Yes she is being gang-banged whilst the guy is a 27 year old virgin (I know him).

    That's what I hate about sex, I feel pain for my older cousin who is also a virgin, and my future male children (if any).

    Us girls have it a lot easier, makeup is also pretty big in all this.
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    OP is male 100%

    Probably Vendetaxx's alternative account.
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    (Original post by Fullofsurprises)
    Well, he seems sweet, but he's a bit young for me. I would nearly always want the man to be at least a few years older, unless he was a really amazing guy.
    Great, now look at this, would you reject him?:

    http://www.moviestarspicture.com/wp-...oung_photo.jpg

    realistically I'm guessing not. Yet he appears similar aged to the other guy. His facial aesthetics and eyes make up for his young look. FACE. Therefore, the other guy I posted is clearly 'cat dragged in' tier, he is so plain looking, he doesn't make you/I feel special, our standards are inflated.

    We don't really think about it, but the power of a handsome face is huge.

    Think about it for a while and think about the pain men have to endure. I don't hate guys, I hate my biological receptors.
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    Great, now look at this, would you reject him?:

    http://www.moviestarspicture.com/wp-...oung_photo.jpg

    realistically I'm guessing not. Yet he appears similar aged to the other guy. His facial aesthetics and eyes make up for his young look. FACE. Therefore, the other guy I posted is clearly 'cat dragged in' tier, he is so plain looking, he doesn't make you/I feel special, our standards are inflated.

    We don't really think about it, but the power of a handsome face is huge.

    Think about it for a while and think about the pain men have to endure. I don't hate guys, I hate my biological receptors.
    Leonardo's hairstyle is really bad in that photo.
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    You don't know very much then. Lots of people choose personality over anything else and don't care about any of that.
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    (Original post by ct2k7)
    Leonardo's hairstyle is really bad in that photo.
    Yes and he looks very fake in that picture, it doesn't exactly ooze sincerity. He's much better looking now he's older and I loved his more recent movies.
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    I could not agree more, anyone who says that personality > looks is lying.
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    Yes she is being gang-banged whilst the guy is a 27 year old virgin (I know him).

    That's what I hate about sex, I feel pain for my older cousin who is also a virgin, and my future male children (if any).

    Us girls have it a lot easier, makeup is also pretty big in all this.
    Out of interest, are you a male?

    I think we all know that girls can get sex much more easily than guys. I agree also that looks and status matter a huge amount to women. They like personality, but only in the sense that they like the personality of a high status, confident, dominant, good looking male. Being simply a nice friendly guy won't cut it unless you're good looking. Girls will be friendly to you, but ask these guys how many girls are attracted to him in a sexual way and it will be zero.

    Wealth matters less than you think. If you're nerdy and don't look good, being rich won't change much. Going into a high paying job like banking to earn 100-200k a year isn't going to magically get you women if you failed with them to begin with. It will give you disposable income to spend on prostitutes and escorts, but that's about it. Besides, most of your time will be consumed by your work so you won't get much chance to meet women.

    In your opinion, what can the average guy do to become one of those guys who gets a lot of sex?
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    (Original post by isabelle york)
    Great, now look at this, would you reject him?:

    http://www.moviestarspicture.com/wp-...oung_photo.jpg

    realistically I'm guessing not. Yet he appears similar aged to the other guy. His facial aesthetics and eyes make up for his young look. FACE. Therefore, the other guy I posted is clearly 'cat dragged in' tier, he is so plain looking, he doesn't make you/I feel special, our standards are inflated.

    We don't really think about it, but the power of a handsome face is huge.

    Think about it for a while and think about the pain men have to endure. I don't hate guys, I hate my biological receptors.
    Now it's obvious you're male, if it wasn't obvious already.
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    (Original post by Fullofsurprises)
    Yes and he looks very fake in that picture, it doesn't exactly ooze sincerity. He's much better looking now he's older and I loved his more recent movies.
    My beard doesn't scream that I'm young
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    (Original post by Bassetts)
    Out of interest, are you a male?

    I think we all know that girls can get sex much more easily than guys. I agree also that looks and status matter a huge amount to women. They like personality, but only in the sense that they like the personality of a high status, confident, dominant, good looking male. Being simply a nice friendly guy won't cut it unless you're good looking. Girls will be friendly to you, but ask these guys how many girls are attracted to him in a sexual way and it will be zero.

    Wealth matters less than you think. If you're nerdy and don't look good, being rich won't change much. Going into a high paying job like banking to earn 100-200k a year isn't going to magically get you women if you failed with them to begin with. It will give you disposable income to spend on prostitutes and escorts, but that's about it. Besides, most of your time will be consumed by your work so you won't get much chance to meet women.

    In your opinion, what can the average guy do to become one of those guys who gets a lot of sex?
    Seriously? become this through surgery: http://www.i.thefashionisto.com/2012...shimansky1.jpg

    My sex drive is hard to trigger, I rarely have sex and when I do it is with the best looking guys. I know I sound vain, but as i previously said, I have my sexual receptors, it's unfair on average guys.
 
 
 
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