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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    Thank you
    Good luck!
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    (Original post by cole-slaw)
    Is that it? There must be something else for you to feel attracted to her.
    Oh I see. She's really beautiful but then again, so are a lot of the other girls at my sixth form. She's always smiling and welcoming even though she's quite popular. I never really got the chance to talk to her. She just added me on Facebook. But she hasn't given me up so I don't think I should give up on her


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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    Thank you. We already live in London. Also I'm a nice guy but I'm not confident because I'm not smart, sporty or popular


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    You don't have to be smart, popular or sporty to be confident, those are very narrow définitions of confidence, and shy guys can be very attractive too.
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    (Original post by LarissaN)
    You don't have to be smart, popular or sporty to be confident, those are very narrow définitions of confidence, and shy guys can be very attractive too.
    Did I also mention I'm not that attractive?


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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    Did I also mention I'm not that attractive?


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    You are not that attractive according to who? as cliched as it sounds, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are some guys who are unconventionnally good looking.

    I understand that you not feeling attractive can have a on knock on effect on your confidence, but keep working on it. Im no Relationship guru, but confidence is key! I swear some of the ugly guys are getting the hot girls these days anyways.

    Stop putting yourself down.
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    (Original post by LarissaN)
    You are not that attractive according to who? as cliched as it sounds, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are some guys who are unconventionnally good looking.

    I understand that you not feeling attractive can have a on knock on effect on your confidence, but keep working on it. Im no Relationship guru, but confidence is key! I swear some of the ugly guys are getting the hot girls these days anyways.

    Stop putting yourself down.
    Ok. I'll try but girls usually don't rate me highly. Only one has called me adorable


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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    Ok. I'll try but girls usually don't rate me highly. Only one has called me adorable


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    If you don't mind me asking, can I see a pic?
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    Can I message it to you?


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    (Original post by LarissaN)
    If you don't mind me asking, can I see a pic?
    Sorry. I'd like to show the pic to just you but it won't let me do that over message


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    (Original post by Archurus23)
    Oh I see. She's really beautiful but then again, so are a lot of the other girls at my sixth form. She's always smiling and welcoming even though she's quite popular. I never really got the chance to talk to her. She just added me on Facebook. But she hasn't given me up so I don't think I should give up on her


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    So let me get this straight, you want to be in a relationship with a girl that you don't have anything in common with and barely seem to know anything about.
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    (Original post by cole-slaw)
    So let me get this straight, you want to be in a relationship with a girl that you don't have anything in common with and barely seem to know anything about.
    I know it looks mad but right now I'm getting to know her. I'll take it slow


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