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    (Original post by AnharM)
    This is probably the best advice, but it's the hardest thing to actually do.

    OP, are you getting laid though? Do you have one-night stands? Or are you one of those guys that doesn't know how to talk/flirt with women?
    I wouldn't say having ONS is actually an efficient way of meeting a girlfriend though , its all judged on superficiality and how sexy the other person is , not what you have in common or the way you see the world , which plays a vital role in making two people feel connected and making a relationship last.

    There are some people who havent ever had a ONS but have had lots of "succesful" relationships , OP would rather be the latter.
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    (Original post by Abbyy95)
    Hey there! Well I'm new to this so I'm a bit unsure as to how this works but I'll give it a go! Feel special this my first activity on here!

    Well to answer your question, you can fall in love twice...I have and the second time is usually better than the first! Waiting doesn't help though! As a girl, I can tell you that we LOVE it when we get that extra bit of attention from someone, so I would advise you to spend more time with your crush, take her out for a meal but don't make it awkward or seem too pushy! It'll do the opposite and we don't want that! But food and gifts are the key to a girls heart haha, and affection of course!
    Thanks for your reply . But wouldnt it look some what needy if I kept on persisting her, I have messaged her on fb but she just gives minimal replies or dosent reply at all.
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    (Original post by cole-slaw)
    I'm not surprised you can't get a girlfriend with this kind of unpleasant attitude.

    Not exactly worth it? Too good for you, matey.
    Oh yeah having girls who sleep around with a lot of guys, have casual sex not wanting to go into a proper relationship, there the ones who you should date ? Great logic.
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    (Original post by IMBCFC)
    Thanks for your reply . But wouldnt it look some what needy if I kept on persisting her, I have messaged her on fb but she just gives minimal replies or dosent reply at all.
    No problem
    Ahh, well if she leaves you on seen then that's a bit of a problem do you go out much? Clubs, gyms and parties are also good place to socialise and get to know girls!
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    (Original post by Jaegon Targaryen)
    I wouldn't say having ONS is actually an efficient way of meeting a girlfriend though , its all judged on superficiality and how sexy the other person is , not what you have in common or the way you see the world , which plays a vital role in making two people feel connected and making a relationship last.

    There are some people who havent ever had a ONS but have had lots of "succesful" relationships , OP would rather be the latter.
    True. I just thought he probably had problems with women in general.
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    (Original post by IMBCFC)
    Oh yeah having girls who sleep around with a lot of guys, have casual sex not wanting to go into a proper relationship, there the ones who you should date ? Great logic.

    says the guy without a girlfriend, begging for advice on TSR.
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    (Original post by cole-slaw)
    says the guy without a girlfriend, begging for advice on TSR.
    No ones begging its just advice, and at least ive had one.
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    If you like a girl there is a good chance they like you. Make it obvious, play fight take fake kissing selfies then say that 'you think they are really pretty'. complimenting a girls looks is always the way to go, but not too much or it will seem insincere.
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    Grab her bum. Chicks LOVE that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Grab her bum. Chicks LOVE that.
    Well she has got a nice one
 
 
 
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