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How do you stop liking handsome guys when I am an ugly one?

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You need to make those guys believe that they are ugly so that they might settle down with you. Perhaps you can get some of your friends to make comments about his "uglyness" in his earshot. Over a long period of time, he may actually start to believe he is ugly even though he is attractive, increasing your chances to be with him once he lowers his standards of the opposite sex.
Original post by quads1992
nah, it doesn't work both ways. A man could be well dressed, well groomed, and in the best shape of his life, but still be ugly due to poor facial structure (or short stature).


no and no

women are less picky than men when it comes to appearance. facial structure matters less and is probably made up for if you got a good body, dress sense, groom etc and confidence. unless you have leprosy, taking care of yourself changes everything. stop trying to excuse yourself by blaming something you cant alter, how lazy can you get?

i know plenty short people who still pull pretty girls, not super short, but not a lot of people are midgets.

unless you're a leper or a midget you have no excuse. but needless to say it is easier for some people and harder for others.
Original post by BullViagra
no and no

women are less picky than men when it comes to appearance. facial structure matters less and is probably made up for if you got a good body, dress sense, groom etc and confidence. unless you have leprosy, taking care of yourself changes everything. stop trying to excuse yourself by blaming something you cant alter, how lazy can you get?

i know plenty short people who still pull pretty girls, not super short, but not a lot of people are midgets.

unless you're a leper or a midget you have no excuse. but needless to say it is easier for some people and harder for others.


lol ok, believe what you want to believe buddy.
You can't help who you are attracted too, everybody does it. Eventually you'll find somebody who you think is really hot and they'll like you back, it happens to mostly everybody.
Original post by quads1992
nah, it doesn't work both ways. A man could be well dressed, well groomed, and in the best shape of his life, but still be ugly due to poor facial structure (or short stature).



Why? It's pointless if they don't find them attractive.


Totally agree with your first point.
Original post by Doctor_Einstein
You need to make those guys believe that they are ugly so that they might settle down with you. Perhaps you can get some of your friends to make comments about his "uglyness" in his earshot. Over a long period of time, he may actually start to believe he is ugly even though he is attractive, increasing your chances to be with him once he lowers his standards of the opposite sex.


That's mean
Reply 26
I'm so over overtly good looking guys.
OP, if you're looking for a relationship, guys are looking for personality :smile:
Original post by ApeMob
I'm so over overtly good looking guys.


Why?
Reply 29
Original post by überambitious_ox
Why?


They treat girls like fans and then when they really like someone they are entitled, often. Good looking men since high school have fancied me and I just ignore them like I want a man with values and economy, looks don't impress me. Also if I'm with a good looking guy it takes all the attention off me :teehee: I don't need arm candeh. :lollypop:
Original post by quads1992
lol ok, believe what you want to believe buddy.


get your head out of your arse maybe
I have this problem too and it makes me feel bad about myself (I start thinking I'm ugly and I wish I looked like them)

I'm just trying to find things about my appearance that I like and boost my own self-confidence so that when I look at an attractive guy, I appreciate them but I don't start hating myself/cursing the way I look.

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