Maybe, but if the guy really liked you then perhaps he would'nt have much of a choice. Either he waits and waits for a break up in the relationship on the sidelines which may never happen and hence be waiting a long time for something that could take years or may never happen or he attempts to ask you out knowing you've got a boyfriend knowing the chances may not be good even counterproductive to forming a relationship in the future should he be turned down even if the chemistry is perhaps stronger than with the present boyfriend. Just seems a bit harsh to have a guy that you are more attracted to hanging around perhaps pointlessly while you may get deeper into a relationship with a guy you are less attracted to (hypothetically speaking) and perhaps marry. So esentially you would be going off with the guy you are less attracted to but felt compelled to be with out of respect. Somehow doesnt seem fair on the guy hanging around to expect him to kind of wait in reserve as it were?(Original post by Ribbits)
I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone who made a move on me while I was in a relationship, they would have gathered if they knew me at all that was a terrible idea against my values. It would rule them out for me, someone who would disrespect both me and someone I cared about. Other people don't feel it that way though.
Girls, would you still continue to go out with your boyfriend if you fancied another? Watch
- 25-07-2014 21:56
- 25-07-2014 22:10
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 25-07-2014 22:18
Well, I mean if you tell your boyfriend right after accepting the guy's request for a date then you've not really cheated, only if you continue to see present boyfriend along with the new guy surely?
I wouldn't stay with a girlfriend if I didn't like her that much and planned to leave as soon as someone better came a long.
- 25-07-2014 22:43