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    1. Common interests.
    2. Intelligence. (I like extremely smart people)
    3. Confidence.
    4. The willingness to do some weird things where sex is involved.
    5. An adventurous nature.
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    I can't deduce true love to 5 things. In fact it's one thing and that's respect. All the rest will fall in place, or not.
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    1) Looks
    2) Her mothers looks
    3) Occupation
    4) Hair
    5) Eyes
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    1. Faithful
    2. Intelligent
    3. Adventurous
    4. Fun to be with
    5. Likes Technology
    6. Charitable
    7. Cares about other people.
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    (Original post by Wilsoncw1997)
    1-5, 1 being most important, 5 least.

    1. Religion (must be catholic)
    2. Political stance
    3. Can communicate
    4. Her job (what type of job is it)
    5.

    So what would your list be?
    (Original post by The vampire)
    1) Age
    2) Attractiveness
    3) Sexually compatible
    4) Intelligence
    5) Personality- honest, sincere, funny etc.
    6) Shared values and interests
    7) Financially stable, good job

    Included two more
    I think you can take it for granted that your partner will have a voicebox and, if he's a man, that he will have a penis. No need to set the bar so low...
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    (Original post by tengentoppa)
    I think you can take it for granted that your partner will have a voicebox and, if he's a man, that he will have a penis. No need to set the bar so low...
    I meant the sex would be good and we'd want it as much as each other. E.g. we'd both want sex daily. It's important in a relationship imo
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    (Original post by Booyah)
    1) Looks
    2) Her mothers looks
    3) Occupation
    4) Hair
    5) Eyes
    So important in a marriage
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    1) Age, I definitely would not go out with a guy who's 20 years older than me
    2) Has a sense of humour/ someone who is not always serious because I can say/ do/ laugh at the strangest things and if they get offended, well I don't think the guy is for me.
    3) Has an opinion, I don't want a yes man _-_
    4) A great personality, I don't mind how handsome the guy is, well I do to an extent, but I wouldn't ditch a date or something cruel like that just because they weren't an "Adonis".
    5) Has aspirations and doesn't mind dreaming big.

    The guy definitely has to be tolerant to want to go on a date with me, I can definitely be immature but people say I have a child-like glee but they must also be able to accept my shy side 😋
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    1: If we share similar interests

    2: Style - Hasn't got to be great but just not to walk around in old tatty clothes or dodgy clashing colours. :confused: I once briefly dated someone who intentionally made herself look unattractive, then she was annoyed with me when I didn't find her attractive all the time. lolwut?

    3: If they enjoy quality time together - going out for meals/cinema alone. or just an evening at home.

    4: To have ambition and actually have a plan/idea of how to achieve goals. People who say their dream is to do XYZ job yet they just bum around and haven't even enrolled in college yet (never mind the undergraduate + postgraduate courses required) by their early twenties really annoy me. :mad:

    5: The ability to be able to talk to me about the relationship if something is bothering them.
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    (Original post by Booyah)
    2) Her mothers looks
    This is actually quite important ... you can see how well/badly a women will age by looking at her mother.
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    (Original post by Hyrule Wayfarer)
    This is actually quite important ... you can see how well/badly a women will age by looking at her mother.
    Well said
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    1. Personality
    2. Common interests
    3. Feeling comfortable around them
    4. Sense of humour
    5. Honesty
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    Number one is appropriate use of words like is and are. Your thread title bugged me


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    1. religion
    2. looks, as long as i'd bang im sorted
    3. personality & intelligence, can't be a boring dumb *****
    4. wealth
    5. history- can't be a slut yo
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    1. Must be a GENTLEMAN ( likes me for more than my looks...)
    2. Must be Catholic/ Christian (or at least believe in God)
    3. Must be the same height as me (i'm 5'11:eek:)
    4. Must be interested in Economics or business like I am
    5. I will be his first girlfriend
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    1. Communication/openness
    2. Integrity/trustworthiness
    3. Personality/being loving/being considerent
    4. Balance between being serious and fun
    5. Political views, someone who isn't classist, racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, etc
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    1. Intelligence

    2. Good conversation

    3. Fun/Positive

    4. In good shape

    5. Willing to go on adventures with me


    I worked this out more by the 5 things I DONT want;


    1. Stupid

    2. Dull conversation

    3. Negative attitude

    4. Lack of respect for health (Tbh this one is mainly only for people who are just dirty and unclean than anything else)

    5. Boring
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    1.Needs to have fat juicey ass

    anything else is irrelevant.

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    1) Humour
    2) Intelligence/higher education (brownie points for studying science )
    3) Being (aggressively) liberal
    4) Ambition
    5) Looks

    Possibly add in desired future, as I don't want kids or marriage so I'd want to date someone who felt the same.
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    Beauty
    Hygiene
    Submissive
    Obedient
    Horny 24/7

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