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How to speak to girlfriend about bedroom matters watch

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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Show her the video, ask her if that's her
    (Original post by Катя)
    What on earth is wrong with just asking her to give you head?
    Can I tell her I find this so hot cos it looks like her?
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    I'm going to bite the bullet here and ask what loads are probably thinking.

    Which pornstar?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Can I tell her I find this so hot cos it looks like her?
    Don't mention any similarities to the porn star you were watching. I guess you could take note of the movements in the video and ask her if she can re-enact it, that way you might find out if she is the girl in the video

    Or maybe not
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Don't mention any similarities to the porn star you were watching. I guess you could take note of the movements in the video and ask her if she can re-enact it, that way you might find out if she is the girl in the video
    Lol she's not the one in the video.

    I can't help but think of her though when I watched it.
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Don't mention any similarities to the porn star you were watching. I guess you could take note of the movements in the video and ask her if she can re-enact it, that way you might find out if she is the girl in the video

    Or maybe not
    They literally look the same, omg.
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Don't mention any similarities to the porn star you were watching. I guess you could take note of the movements in the video and ask her if she can re-enact it, that way you might find out if she is the girl in the video

    Or maybe not
    How to ask?
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    Nah forget it, let her do what she wants during the intercourse
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    (Original post by Arkasia)
    I'm going to bite the bullet here and ask what loads are probably thinking.

    Which pornstar?
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    (Original post by Катя)
    What on earth is wrong with just asking her to give you head?
    Good point. How to mention that I like this because it looks like her?
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    just talk to her about the act, don't tell her why until you know her better or it's just going to cause an argument and make her not want to do whatever sexual act it is
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    Few girls want to know that they are like a porn star. Strangely they aren't often attracted by them and what they do, and will, quite rightly, think that you are not really interested in them as a person. only as a sex object. This is not flattering nor is it the way to develop a relationship which is what many girls, being on the whole somewhat more mature than boys, are after.

    Porn sex bears little relation to real sex as your girl friend would understand it or as you will understand it when you are more experienced. Girls want to know that you like them and are going to please them in bed. Not unsurprisingly.

    Mention it to your girl friend but be prepared for her to be off pretty quickly.
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    (Original post by doodle_333)
    just talk to her about the act, don't tell her why until you know her better or it's just going to cause an argument and make her not want to do whatever sexual act it is
    (Original post by pickup)
    Few girls want to know that they are like a porn star. Strangely they aren't often attracted by them and what they do, and will, quite rightly, think that you are not really interested in them as a person. only as a sex object. This is not flattering nor is it the way to develop a relationship which is what many girls, being on the whole somewhat more mature than boys, are after.

    Porn sex bears little relation to real sex as your girl friend would understand it or as you will understand it when you are more experienced. Girls want to know that you like them and are going to please them in bed. Not unsurprisingly.

    Mention it to your girl friend but be prepared for her to be off pretty quickly.
    Was watching it because I hadn't seen her for ages and missed her. Found it hot because it looked like her tbh. Naturally would prefer a vid of her!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Was watching it because I hadn't seen her for ages and missed her. Found it hot because it looked like her tbh. Naturally would prefer a vid of her!
    no one is saying you're watching the video for the wrong reasons, just listen to what everyone is saying - which is that your girlfriend WILL NOT take it as a compliment
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    (Original post by doodle_333)
    no one is saying you're watching the video for the wrong reasons, just listen to what everyone is saying - which is that your girlfriend WILL NOT take it as a compliment
    And fapping to a picture of them or said star is okay?
 
 
 
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