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    (Original post by SophiaLDN)
    Hmmm, so it definitely wasn't the joke then. Are you always initiating the conversation now? Or making more effort to talk to him in comparison? It seems like he's just not into it any more, some people do that randomly. Why? Who knows, sometimes there's just no reason. Everything is going fine and then they turn cold all of a second and start distancing themselves slowly. So I would say he's just not that into you. If I were you I would act normal and wait for him to initiate a next date/convo from now on. See how it plays out, because you never know so don't jump the gun.
    No he's messaged me twice last week, but it's been mostly me making the effort. I'd rather have closure, so i know where I stand. I don't get how we can go from having a great time with each other to him losing interest. We shall see though. I have taken a step back.

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The guy I like and I have this running joke where we say our next date will be in the next couple of months. For example I said '' I'll see you in August when it's warmer when I last saw him. I started it off, but I joke around and ask if it's his way of saying he doesn't want to see me again when he says it.

    So I call him the other day and casually ask where we are going next and his response is 'ooohh.. I don't know I haven't really thought about it. Remember it won't be until August '. There was something about the way he responded so I joked and said ' it kinda sounded like ooh there's going be a next time, like it's a bad thing' because it definitely sounded like it. He just played it off. Up until then the conversation was fine but he's limited the amount of contact he makes. We did touch on the subject of times we've made excuses to avoid someone and he's not avoided any of my messages or anything. Just seems a little distant.

    Am I right to think he's a little off with me? Or might not want to see me again?
    Yes he's not into you, maybe because he doesn't see you as a challenge and you are always there for him. Just cut off contact for a bit and see if he responds, if he does then he does like you but just wants a bit of space and if he doesn't then be sure that he isn't interested!
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