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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Would you turn girls down if you didn't see it working out with them? Or if you already like someone else but people still ask you on dates
    Yes I would. No point dragging it out if it wont work. I would also like the girl to end it with me if she thinks it won't work too.

    I won't turn down girls if the one I really like is out there, can't keep all my eggs in one basket
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    Not rude at all. However, if you turned me down, I would be inclined to assume you were a lesbian.
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    (Original post by bittr n swt)
    Yes I would. No point dragging it out if it wont work. I would also like the girl to end it with me if she thinks it won't work too.

    I won't turn down girls if the one I really like is out there, can't keep all my eggs in one basket
    Fair enough
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Not rude at all. However, if you turned me down, I would be inclined to assume you were a lesbian.
    Hmm...why's that?
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    Nope, nothing worse than a pity date.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Hmm...why's that?
    I don't get turned down :sexface:
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    (Original post by TurboCretin)
    Hey everyone I'm soooo popular with the guyz.
    Hahaha +1.

    OP, completely loaded question.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I don't get turned down :sexface:
    Oh you're like another foo.mp3?
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Oh you're like another foo.mp3?
    Depends how you mean :lol:
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Depends how you mean :lol:
    You know exactly what I mean
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    You know exactly what I mean
    Why don't you elaborate for me and we'll see
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Why don't you elaborate for me and we'll see
    Successful with the ladies
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Successful with the ladies
    Uh-huh :sexface:
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Like for dates? I mean I get it if there's no attraction but what if you generally just don't click?

    i just feel like,it makes me look bad.
    i've had many offers from respectable,great looking gentlemen and I was joking about this whole situation with a friend of mine yesterday who said something along the lines of... It doesn't make you look good and would put me off ever asking you out,even tho I knew he joking but I guess he has a point.

    i just truly want to be with a certain person right now but I don't want to come across an an arrogant young lady to other men who ask me out.
    Don't see an issue, dating is a mutually consensual activity and if you're not up for it with someone you're not up for it. I guess it might be a bit confusing to others if you are being friendly to guys and not going after some you do fancy. But so what.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Uh-huh :sexface:
    Sure,sure
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Don't see an issue, dating is a mutually consensual activity and if you're not up for it with someone you're not up for it. I guess it might be a bit confusing to others if you are being friendly to guys and not going after some you do fancy. But so what.
    Exactly
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Sure,sure
    I've got you going already haven't I
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I've got you going already haven't I
    Try alittle bit harder
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Like for dates? I mean I get it if there's no attraction but what if you generally just don't click?

    i just feel like,it makes me look bad.
    i've had many offers from respectable,great looking gentlemen and I was joking about this whole situation with a friend of mine yesterday who said something along the lines of... It doesn't make you look good and would put me off ever asking you out,even tho I knew he joking but I guess he has a point.

    i just truly want to be with a certain person right now but I don't want to come across an an arrogant young lady to other men who ask me out.

    If you don't like them for whatever reason, you don't like them. That's it
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Try alittle bit harder
    Well, try-hard isn't my style... buuuut, I might make a bit of an exception for you, if you're lucky
 
 
 
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