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    (Original post by iceflyier)
    Well, not to be discouraging, but...you obviously care enough to make a thread about it.
    Just wanted to see if other people thought it was odd of me, as literally no ones ever said it to me before and I know some very blunt people who probably would have said if it pissed them off

    You're hooking up. He doesn't want you to care about him getting home. The only time he wants to hear from you, is to organise the next hookup. A girlfriend might check to see that he got home. A hobby shag doesn't.

    You care to that extent, but he doesn't want you to do even that much. It implies a level of connection that he doesn't want. You're not being needy as such, but your behaviour isn't consistent with what he wants from you i.e. no-strings sex and nothing more.

    You should stop checking in with him. If that feels wrong or disappointing, then you may need to move on from him.
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