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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    Okay thank you for advice
    I didn't give advice...
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    suggest talking to him about his (probably) porn addiction and trying to get to the underlying motivations behind it. It's not always not finding you attractive, sometimes it's covering some underlying insecurities. Give him some time. But then I am biased, most girls would think I'm a pussy in many ways ha
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    This is not normal at all. A guy has a naked girl in his bed and he doesn't want to have sex with her?!? That is the definition of madness!!! And he wanks over porn every day instead of f***ing you, that's just impossible. S**t ain't right. Who would you even put up with this nonsense?

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    I think talk to him about it and find out more. He could be addicted to porn, he could have insecurities about sex, he could have a fetish who knows. If he loves you he will talk to you about things and make an effort to please you.

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    (Original post by blondyx)
    I think talk to him about it and find out more. He could be addicted to porn, he could have insecurities about sex, he could have a fetish who knows. If he loves you he will talk to you about things and make an effort to please you.

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    He likes to watch henti and fat porn, i'm not fat, i'm curvy and got told i'm not bad in bed at all and i'm open to different sorts of stuff, he's friend was like him and now him and his gf never have sex and she gets moaned at every time she asks, i'm scared he will turn like that...
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    I think you need to sit down and have a proper talk with him about this, if he's living in some fantasy porn land it doesn't matter how good in bed or how attractive you are he'll still prefer the virtual over reality. The fact he tries to make excuses suggests that he's addicted, where a real woman would never be enough, so unless you can get this across to him and try to work through it together it might be a lost cause.
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    (Original post by MPenny19)
    I think you need to sit down and have a proper talk with him about this, if he's living in some fantasy porn land it doesn't matter how good in bed or how attractive you are he'll still prefer the virtual over reality. The fact he tries to make excuses suggests that he's addicted, where a real woman would never be enough, so unless you can get this across to him and try to work through it together it might be a lost cause.

    Alright thank you i will try that
 
 
 
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