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    The thing is I am beginning to become attracted to women and do at least wanna try it so I can see I have done it.
    Ah if you're findin yerself attracted then sure. Uhhh... I can't help you chat one up I've never even kissed a girl.
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    So I just go clubbing and try a pick a woman up. Easy as that. Just look nice and try and get one by flirting. I have never flirted with anyone through. If I get desperate I could go to a prostitute through.
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    Will that work. Anyone know.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I just go clubbing and try a pick a woman up. Easy as that. Just look nice and try and get one by flirting. I have never flirted with anyone through. If I get desperate I could go to a prostitute through.
    Your respect for women is appalling.


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    I'm trying online dating, I seem to very popular with people who live nowhere near me.
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    Your respect for women is appalling.


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    He's only doing this for experimental purposes, what else can be done?


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    He's only doing this for experimental purposes, what else can be done?


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    I just want a causal one night stand. Nothing more.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just want a causal one night stand. Nothing more.
    Go on a night out and ask 100 girls "do ya wanna ****?" - 99 might say no but maybe one will say yes.

    But I don't recommend this.
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    Go on a night out and ask 100 girls "do ya wanna ****?" - 99 might say no but maybe one will say yes.

    But I don't recommend this.
    What else should I do. How do I start a conversation without looking like a weirdo.
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    What else should I do. How do I start a conversation without looking like a weirdo.
    Be secure about yourself. Don't place too much importance on the convo, just let it be as natural as possible.

    Depends on context. If on a night out, ask them how their night is going. If in a lecture on Monday morning, ask them how their weekend was.
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    Not too much different to how you try it with a man really. I say this as interestingly enough gay men in the gay community have a heck of a lot of the right ideals on how a man should approach a woman.

    You can be as direct as you want with a woman as you would with a man and in fact that approach is in fact favorable.

    You are playing to win, not to not loose. So you could do the boring whole "What you drinking" effort. Its playing it safe. No one will reject you right off the bat for that. But its low risk no reward.

    Or you could say something like "Your boobs, amazing" with a cheeky grin on your face. Some will hate you for this, some will love you. So what if they hate you just talk to someone else.

    However there are some subtle differences.

    Your tonality of voice needs to be controlled. No inflection what so ever.
    You need to be strong in your body language. Almost stereo typically masculine.
    You need to understand the social pressures imposed on woman that are not imposed in the gay community on men or woman and work around this.

    Other then that. Be bold.
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    The beset line I've ever dropped:

    http://instagram.com/p/ydRR6mCH_F/?modal=true

    Guess you'll never know

    Ironically we broke up 2 months after.
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    He's only doing this for experimental purposes, what else can be done?


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    Yes but the way he said I'll just go and pick up some woman like they're items in the shop or something is just disrespectful


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    (Original post by r-t)
    Yes but the way he said I'll just go and pick up some woman like they're items in the shop or something is just disrespectful


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    There's no other way of putting it when you're only after a casual shag...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I just go clubbing and try a pick a woman up. Easy as that. Just look nice and try and get one by flirting. I have never flirted with anyone through. If I get desperate I could go to a prostitute through.
    Go and pinch a girls bum in the club or something, or just simply ask for a **** :P
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    Go and pinch a girls bum in the club :P
    Umm...no. It's a sure fire way of getting kicked out/in the nuts and really isn't an appropriate way to treat a person.

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