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    hello again

    ugh I should have been at this party 3 hours ago…I keep putting off seeing people until the last minute, not sure what's happened the has been going on since graduation I think my offline social anxiety has flared up.

    also reships threads grinding my gears

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    'is it unattractive for a man to cry' **** off
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    hello again

    ugh I should have been at this party 3 hours ago…I keep putting off seeing people until the last minute, not sure what's happened the has been going on since graduation I think my offline social anxiety has flared up.

    also reships threads grinding my gears

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    'is it unattractive for a man to cry' **** off
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    i find it indeering and cute that men cry as i like people to be in touch with their emotions



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    i find it indeering and cute that men cry as i like people to be in touch with their emotions



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    this is what everyone's saying, then a guy said '***** will saying it's fine but we all know you're getting judged, save it for a death in the family or something'

    I devoted an entire Reddit thread to the matter
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    New thread new thread new thread :nutcase: :party: :crazy:
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    hello again

    ugh I should have been at this party 3 hours ago…I keep putting off seeing people until the last minute, not sure what's happened the has been going on since graduation I think my offline social anxiety has flared up.

    also reships threads grinding my gears

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    'is it unattractive for a man to cry' **** off
    The piss me off as well. People need to find a ****ing brain for once and use it. As everyone will cry, even the most mathco dudes!

    And the I think this guy likes me, what should I do..? Threads are annoying, most simple answer, grow a pair and go and ask them!
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
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    this is what everyone's saying, then a guy said '***** will saying it's fine but we all know you're getting judged, save it for a death in the family or something'

    I devoted an entire Reddit thread to the matter
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    crying is a natural thing like smiling or frowning... Every single person in their life cries why should it matter wether your male or female? It shouldnt!



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    just saw a really triggering SH picture. bleh. already having **** thoughts and feeling agitated.
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    didn't make it to the party but thanks for the encouragement just found people from my old school deleting me off Facebook…but they've kept all my other school friends. What the hell :/ it's things like that which make me feel there's stigma.

    now I can't remember whether it was actually ME who deleted them because I went through a purge during my severe depressive episode in late 2012 when I was close to psychosis and showing it all over my page…idk

    I wouldn't care but for the fact they only deleted me no-one else in my friendship group
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    it never ends
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    (Original post by ScaryScience)
    thanks. you feeling any better?
    Yeah, I think.
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    hey all

    MHSS XVI...I remember the days of Dep Soc :moon:

    feel very old now though this account is still pretty new lol.
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    Wondering if I should stay as anon or not...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Wondering if I should stay as anon or not...
    Decided to make a new account. The above is me (and anon #27 from the old thread is also me).

    Soo. Hi everyone.
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    (Original post by Pathway)
    Decided to make a new account. The above is me (and anon #27 from the old thread is also me).

    Soo. Hi everyone.
    :hi:
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    I've been feeling absolutely awful for weeks. Pretty much every day ends in tears and I can't bring myself to do anything. I don't know how to stop wallowing in self-pity.
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    :hi:
    hi! How are things going?

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've been feeling absolutely awful for weeks. Pretty much every day ends in tears and I can't bring myself to do anything. I don't know how to stop wallowing in self-pity.
    :console:
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    (Original post by Pathway)
    hi! How are things going?
    Feeling better than I was yesterday, you?

    And have some new account rep.
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    Feeling better than I was yesterday, you?

    And have some new account rep.
    Sorry to hear yesterday didn't go very well, but I'm glad you're feeling better now. :hugs: Do you have triggers for your dissociation? I'm ok, just working on this complaint letter about the CMHT assessment. It's really difficult.

    Haha, thank you. :P
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    (Original post by Pathway)
    Sorry to hear yesterday didn't go very well, but I'm glad you're feeling better now. :hugs: Do you have triggers for your dissociation? I'm ok, just working on this complaint letter about the CMHT assessment. It's really difficult.

    Haha, thank you. :P
    Thanks. I think being tired and listening to certain music tends to send me off, but other than that I'm not sure.

    Good luck with your letter, hope you get a good response.
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    Thanks. I think being tired and listening to certain music tends to send me off, but other than that I'm not sure.

    Good luck with your letter, hope you get a good response.
    Yeah, being tired definitely sets me off too. Hmm, do you use grounding techniques? They sometimes help me "come back".

    Thank you.
 
 
 
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