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(Original post by Loafing.Charizard)
Hey JJ, haha good to know . Neither do I, usually help people out in their time of need, but sometimes it isn't reciprocated on their behalf. I don't have a problem saying "No" but I used to before when I was younger lol.
Ahh I see I don't do much for people, in fact I've hardly ever done anything for anyone. I can't say anyone has taken advantage of me or anything like that. It's just being nice and polite, that's it really. But I do employ a lot of sneak tactics to get out of social obligations or to avoid having to do a favour. Eg I'll get ghost if I feel that the moment calls for it. I'm good at hiding and dodging.
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Ahh I see I don't do much for people, in fact I've hardly ever done anything for anyone. I can't say anyone has taken advantage of me or anything like that. It's just being nice and polite, that's it really. But I do employ a lot of sneak tactics to get out of social obligations or to avoid having to do a favour. Eg I'll get ghost if I feel that the moment calls for it. I'm good at hiding and dodging.
Legit I'm so quiet, my mates didn't notice me disappear once . Hahaha tell me about it, I actually lie a lot to get out of social obligations, mainly because the weekend is the only time I get to chill, but it's also the only time I get to see my mates so it's hard. I wanted to get out of one this weekend, but I don't have an excuse lined up, YET! hah. Your friends be calling your phone, JUICE MANe, where you at bro? Juice man never answers phone
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To an extent, I think we all are. I can be quite dominant especially when it comes to group projects at Uni, however I can also be a 'Yes Man' when I'm at home (very much) or just hanging around with friends.
I guess it depends on the situation and where I am.
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(Original post by Loafing.Charizard)
Legit I'm so quiet, my mates didn't notice me disappear once . Hahaha tell me about it, I actually lie a lot to get out of social obligations, mainly because the weekend is the only time I get to chill, but it's also the only time I get to see my mates so it's hard. I wanted to get out of one this weekend, but I don't have an excuse lined up, YET! hah. Your friends be calling your phone, JUICE MANe, where you at bro? Juice man never answers phone
HI LOAFING hahaha LOL man's call reject list is longer than a jobcentre plus queue, believe dat. You're so sneaky lol, would you describe yourself as a social chameleon? BYE LOAF

you better think of an excuse for this weekend, time is running out. Tell them you're expecting to come down with the flu on that day, that might work
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(Original post by Juicy J)
HI LOAFING hahaha LOL man's call reject list is longer than a jobcentre plus queue, believe dat. You're so sneaky lol, would you describe yourself as a social chameleon? BYE LOAF

you better think of an excuse for this weekend, time is running out. Tell them you're expecting to come down with the flu on that day, that might work
Omg ahahahahha, quality bars there mate. Woahh never thought of that before, I guess I am a social chameleon when I want to be

I might just post on the event that I might be sick on Saturday lmfao
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(Original post by Loafing.Charizard)
Omg ahahahahha, quality bars there mate. Woahh never thought of that before, I guess I am a social chameleon when I want to be

I might just post on the event that I might be sick on Saturday lmfao
Lol "might be sick on Saturday. Sorry guyz. Cant make it, go on witout me brahs. Loafing." I think that would work yes
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(Original post by Juicy J)
Lol "might be sick on Saturday. Sorry guyz. Cant make it, go on witout me brahs. Loafing." I think that would work yes
or I could use the classic American movie line " I think i'm washing my hair that day"
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(Original post by Loafing.Charizard)
or I could use the classic American movie line " I think i'm washing my hair that day"
But I thought you were bald? You sound bald...
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I'd say I am
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(Original post by Juicy J)
But I thought you were bald? You sound bald...
I still like to condition my scalp

You know my deepest secret.
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No. Unless it's your SO, family (if they're good to you, mine aren't) or someone you want something from people aren't worth your time or energy. I went no contact with my closest/oldest friends recently so I'm at war with people right now. :unimpressed:
I did that back in 6th form. Bunch o skanks. Made 2 gal pals who are lovely though

(Original post by Juicy J)
Ahh I see I don't do much for people, in fact I've hardly ever done anything for anyone. I can't say anyone has taken advantage of me or anything like that. It's just being nice and polite, that's it really. But I do employ a lot of sneak tactics to get out of social obligations or to avoid having to do a favour. Eg I'll get ghost if I feel that the moment calls for it. I'm good at hiding and dodging.
thats like the opposite of people pleasing lol.
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(Original post by Loafing.Charizard)
I still like to condition my scalp

You know my deepest secret.
LOOL you're killing me loaf
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only if i'm gaining something
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Why anyone would actually go out of their way to please people is a mystery to me. I don't live to please people.
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As i have got older i have changed. I used to be a people pleaser but not to an unhealthy degree. Now i please the really important people in my life and as for the others, i dont give a stuff if they are pleased or not.
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I'm either very nice or blunt as ****. If someone needs help and is nice, I will help. If someone is being noisy at 2am and I need to be up at a reasonable hour, I will break them.
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I like to make people happy and in return I feel good. Most people make it sound like you're gaining nothing but I think it's rather mutual.
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