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If you have self-respect in the first place surely u would not have resorted to selling your body to get out of debt. Period.
But self respect is some you define for yourself. Your definition of self respect differs for another person because you have your own ideas on how you would respect yourself. Damn, it's not that hard to understand lol.
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If you have self-respect in the first place surely u would not have resorted to selling your body to get out of debt. Period.
Your definition makes no sense. So for example, a Muslim woman may think I have no self respect because I don't cover up. So does that mean I literally have no self respect because I don't cover up? No. Self respect is what you make for yourself. Not for others.
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But self respect is some you define for yourself. Your definition of self respect differs for another person because you have your own ideas on how you would respect yourself. Damn, it's not that hard to understand lol.
You sound really passionate about this, I'm guessing you've done escorting before or know someone personal.

If you did a survey of 5000 people most would say escorts don't have self respect from themselves.

It's cheap, dirty and disgusting. Let's not even talk about the men who pay the scum
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(Original post by Novascope)
Your definition makes no sense. So for example, a Muslim woman may think I have no self respect because I don't cover up. So does that mean I literally have no self respect because I don't cover up? No. Self respect is what you make for yourself. Not for others.
alright so op likes to get laid by strangers she doesnt know
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I'm thinking of going into sex work part time (just about 8 -10 clients) a week outside of my usual job.

Any tips on how to detatch myself emotionally during sex ? Thank you
I don't understand, surely finding a normal 9-5 would be more appropriate and save you the worry of having your sugar walls being smashed by some random dude?:lolwut:


But hey who am I to judge, right.:wink2:
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You sound really passionate about this, I'm guessing you've done escorting before or know someone personal.

If you did a survey of 5000 people most would say escorts don't have self respect from themselves.

It's cheap, dirty and disgusting. Let's not even talk about the men who pay the scum
Lol no. I'm at university hun, no time for that.

I just find it ridiculous how you guys are bashing her for wanting to do something for herself. Let her do whatever she wants, if she still thinks she's respecting herself at the end of the day then so be it. It's got nothing to do with you and has no effect on you whatsoever.

See, clearly you know nothing about it. You're just describing prostitution. That's completely different to being an escort.

And why I know so much is because of my uni course, I'm studying journalism and therefore have had to watch many different documentaries and read many articles of various things.
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alright so op likes to get laid by strangers she doesnt know
If she's comfortable with it then so what. Sorry but I just can't stand when people think that only their opinions on things are right.
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just to save money and clear my debts.
Well sorry to hear you have debts but we all do. I know the women in my life thankfully would not resort to such a choice. It may affect you mentally in the future also think about the STD's not here to shame you though, your body your choice.
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If she's comfortable with it then so what. Sorry but I just can't stand when people think that only their opinions on things are right.
Nothing wrong with expressing our opinions on the matter just like yourself.
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Nothing wrong with expressing our opinions on the matter just like yourself.
Yes, but trying to make the op feel worthless is what's wrong. I don't care if you think escorting isn't right. Just don't tell someone they have no self respect for what they do, when the whole concept of self respect is how you respect yourself...
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But you don't know her reasons for resorting to something like that. If you need to become an escort to help get yourself out of debt or put food on the table, so ****ing what. Better that than rely on benefits and have people ridicule you for it.
Note that men don't have that option.

And there should be no ridiculing anyone for relying on benefits: they are a right and a necessity for a civilised society. In America there is not a proper safety net, so you end up with an exploitative sex industry where desperate women end up getting abused because there's no other place for them to go.

The reason why it's "shameful" for women to have lots of sex, or make money from selling their bodies, is because it's so easy for women to do so, unlike for men. It is seen as cheating in the game of life, exploiting a market which is coercive due to the size of men's sex drives. It's similar to the way people see con artists or dodgy landlords or whatever.
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I don't understand, surely finding a normal 9-5 would be more appropriate and save you the worry of having your sugar walls being smashed by some random dude?:lolwut:


But hey who am I to judge, right.:wink2:
If it were that easy then no woman would ever become a prostitute, would she?
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Yes, but trying to make the op feel worthless is what's wrong. I don't care if you think escorting isn't right. Just don't tell someone they have no self respect for what they do, when the whole concept of self respect is how you respect yourself...

I'm not sure about anyone else, but I can't pretend I can get my head around this. I just feel there are other ways around it and I asked OP if she has another other skills to offer. I also highlighted the fact she should be worried about losing her self-respect, I mean why hasn't this crossed her mind? She made a post about being worried about getting attached, really? I didn't say she had no self-respect I'm just saying she should throughly think about what she could potentially be losing here. You say there are documentaries about women that do this or whatever, I'm sure some women will claim to have their happy ending but this isn't the same for everybody. So why even consider going down this road when you can save yourself so much trouble? OP can do what she wants, I agree her life, her fanny!
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If it were that easy then no woman would ever become a prostitute, would she?
Well no:lolwut:, I always get job offers on my email, so if I can why can't anyone else, maybe she shoud just look for help to improve her CV, prostitution should be a last resort.
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I'm not sure about anyone else, but I can't pretend I can get my head around this. I just feel there are other ways around it and I asked OP if she has another other skills to offer. I also highlighted the fact she should be worried about losing her self-respect, I mean why hasn't this crossed her mind? She made a post about being worried about getting attached, really? I didn't say she had no self-respect I'm just saying she should throughly think about what she could potentially be losing here. You say there are documentaries about women that do this or whatever, I'm sure some women will claim to have their happy ending but this isn't the same for everybody. So why even consider going down this road when you can save yourself so much trouble? OP can do what she wants, I agree her life, her fanny!
But I didn't reply to you first did I? Haha, I was talking about the other two guys that I was having the discussion with, you just came in now. I didn't mean that you were saying she had no self-respect. I totally agree with your last bit, there are other ways people can earn money to save themselves out of debt or whatever, but they still have the choice of what way to go about it
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Well no:lolwut:, I always get job offers on my email, so if I can why can't anyone else, maybe she shoud just look for help to improve her CV, prostitution should be a last resort.
Lol. It shouldn't even be on anyone's list of options to be honest. Anyone can get a job if they really put their mind to it.. I'm not saying it's easy, but it's possible. OP just wants to make quick money I guess.:confused:
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I'm thinking of going into sex work part time (just about 8 -10 clients) a week outside of my usual job.

Any tips on how to detatch myself emotionally during sex ? Thank you
I imagine the longer you work as a prostitute and the more people you sleep with the more detached from sex you will become over time I guess. Like anything just takes time to get used to it and desensitised I guess.
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(Original post by phunky_fresh)
Lol. It shouldn't even be on anyone's list of options to be honest. Anyone can get a job if they really put their mind to it.. I'm not saying it's easy, but it's possible. OP just wants to make quick money I guess.:confused:
As per my OP (maybe you should read) I already work a full time job and also have a part time job and freelance on evenings.

I work 7 days a week and an average of 80 hours a week at this moment.

Please read before saying untruths.
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I imagine the longer you work as a prostitute and the more people you sleep with the more detached from sex you will become over time I guess. Like anything just takes time to get used to it and desensitised I guess.
Okay. thank you.
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Well no:lolwut:, I always get job offers on my email, so if I can why can't anyone else, maybe she shoud just look for help to improve her CV, prostitution should be a last resort.
it is a last resort which i have now gotten to.
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