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    As a girl, I'd rather have a virgin boy than an experienced boy, Just my preference though. I don't see what the big deal is, just be a man and tell them so what if I'm a virgin? There are plenty of people your age who are virgins so ignore what the people around you are saying. I think you should just tell them you lied (it usually somehow comes out anyway, better to come from your mouth than anything else) and then wait and find a girl who you actually want to lose it to (If she really loves you she won't really care about whether you're experienced or not). Anyway, that's just my subjective view on the matter, so you have to decide what you want to do. I wish you luck.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    PROBLEM IS, a lot of girls at this age assume you're experienced and know what you're doing. You may be the sweetest, best guy in the world, with a body of a GREEK GOD, if you're in your early 20's and are suspect of being a Virgin, they won't touch you. As well as having all this cute relationship stuff, girls also want a GOOD RATTLING which you'd be under experienced to provide it's the reverse standard, a guy would love a Virgin girl, but a girl never wants a guy who doesn't know what they are doing.

    Ideally they all want someone who had a girlfriend at 16, got AMAZING at sex, broke up with her after 5 years, found them and provided them with amazing sex without having slept with 100 other people.

    Good luck ladies.
    Can we just take a moment for this one line "girls also want a GOOD RATTLING" :jiggy:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    PROBLEM IS, a lot of girls at this age assume you're experienced and know what you're doing. You may be the sweetest, best guy in the world, with a body of a GREEK GOD, if you're in your early 20's and are suspect of being a Virgin, they won't touch you. As well as having all this cute relationship stuff, girls also want a GOOD RATTLING which you'd be under experienced to provide it's the reverse standard, a guy would love a Virgin girl, but a girl never wants a guy who doesn't know what they are doing.

    Ideally they all want someone who had a girlfriend at 16, got AMAZING at sex, broke up with her after 5 years, found them and provided them with amazing sex without having slept with 100 other people.

    Good luck ladies.
    That is completely wrong. If a guy is bad a sex the first few times, that can be resolved by communication until he knows exactly what he's doing. Practise makes perfect, whether that's with 1 girl or 100 girls. I'd prefer less girls because the more girls he's been with, the higher chance of an STD
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    OP, if you're got the budget head over to Thailand or the Philippines. You can get girls to stay 'long time' (overnight) there for about the same as it costs for 30 mins with a hooker in the UK.
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    (Original post by LauraMayden1)
    As a girl, I'd rather have a virgin boy than an experienced boy, Just my preference though.
    This gives me a sigh of relief. I'm 22 and not only a virgin, but fairly untouched sexually in general. Not being the best looking and not being very outgoing has led to it not happening. So it's a relief that there are girls out there who don't mind virginised guys!
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    Bro dont worry about it, its just sex! whilst fun its really not the biggest deal out there and to be honest i've used an escort before and dont deny it to anyone who asks, well some but never mind If i were you i'd go to a bar or Tinder even and find someone dont pay for your first time, i say that not for any reasons of morals etc. but simply go for the hunt! also escort agencies like to do a bait and switch... either way if I were YOU I'd find a girl the normal way and then find a hooker if you so will, I only used one when I was away on business and had nothing better to do... for an hour of company its not really worth it most times but hey if you dont find someone to have a shag with no shame in using an escort, this is britain not thailand etc. most escort agencies are fine and have nothing to do with crime! Also some are quite cheap and well you can have fun... I do warn you that these girls come with muscle though! but none the less theyre experienced with this situation and can help you out but your choice mate
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    (Original post by Ridingmyego)
    This gives me a sigh of relief. I'm 22 and not only a virgin, but fairly untouched sexually in general. Not being the best looking and not being very outgoing has led to it not happening. So it's a relief that there are girls out there who don't mind virginised guys!
    I don't just not mind it, I prefer it. I admire anyone who likes to wait till marriage/for the right person before they lose their virginity.
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    The fact your friends make fun of you is ridiculous. I'd say them making fun of you for being a virgin is more ridiculous than being a virgin in your 20s.

    IT sucks that they've made you feel this way. Added to that the fact that the girls you've attracted are put off my the fact you're a virgin is no wonder why you're feeling so down about it.

    Unfortunately it is probably still not going to sink in but honestly it is NOT that big of a deal.

    If you had different company and were around different girls you would realise that.

    Don't get a prostitute. loosing your virginity to a prostitute is more embarrassing than being a virgin in my opinion tbh.

    There are a lot of girls out there who wouldn't care about the fact your a virgin. Rather than getting it 'over and done with' I think you should wait and find a girl that you actually like rather than one who will have sex with anyone and is actually taking your money to take your virginity.

    In short, don't do it. You'll probably regret it and once it's over think 'is that all this fuss was about :rolleyes:' :rofl:
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    People only take the piss if you're not comfortable with it yourself. When I was 20 I used to love making everyone drink when playing "I have never", never had the piss taken out of me for it. Now that you've lied though it's gonna be hard to go back on it without just putting yourself up for even more of a ribbing.
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    You should be proud to be a Virgin! a lot of people are wasting their virginity at a such a young age. It's like they don't have no shame! I'm proud to be a Virgin myself!!


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    What is v?

    What is life?

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    Admit it when it comes up in conversation then when they ask why you lied say they were getting to you with the mick taking. Make'um feel bad bout it!!!!


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