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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In today is hyper-sexualised world where girls regularly promote themselves in skimpy-clothing uploading them by the dozen, its like they want us to **** over them in the first place. If you look on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or whatever social media these are the pictures which attract the most likes and they know it. What am I supposed to do about it? If I find them attractive I find them attractive. If she finds them attractive she finds them attractive.

    Again, I never mentioned anything about me preferring them to her, so I do not know why you and some over poster above feel the need to assume I do?
    Just because women want to wear whatever clothes it doesn't mean they are asking me to **** over them.

    You are kind of implying you do prefer them - if you were committed to your girlfriend surely you wouldn't need to find other near-naked girls as your girlf would suffice.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In today is hyper-sexualised world where girls regularly promote themselves in skimpy-clothing uploading them by the dozen, its like they want us to **** over them in the first place. If you look on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or whatever social media these are the pictures which attract the most likes and they know it. What am I supposed to do about it? If I find them attractive I find them attractive. If she finds them attractive she finds them attractive.

    Again, I never mentioned anything about me preferring them to her, so I do not know why you and some over poster above feel the need to assume I do?
    At no point did I mention her preferring them over you. I was saying imagine that she went through her 'wankbank' of your mates with you -how would that make you feel? Something you've avoided answering.
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    (Original post by holson)
    Just because women want to wear whatever clothes it doesn't mean they are asking me to **** over them.

    You are kind of implying you do prefer them - if you were committed to your girlfriend surely you wouldn't need to find other near-naked girls as your girlf would suffice.

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    (Original post by hannahhaworth)
    Girrl, high 5 me
    *high fives*

    I just realised I said "asking me to **** over them" when I meant to say "you"... Gonna keep it there. I like it.

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    I may be the only girl that may side with u here...
    But you're in a ldr and you're going to be sexually frustrated. That's understandable. And whether girls want to know, or admit it or otherwise, lads will **** over celebs, porn stars, your friends, anyone they find sexually attractive.
    It is just a animalistic instinct. Girls will do it too, just not as much, or admit it.
    I just think if you're not actually doing the dirty and cheating then fine. You're not talking to these girls, you're not flirting with them with the hopes of more and you aren't meeting up and kissing other girls.
    I'd say fair play for keeping it in your pants in a ldr.


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    Judging from this thread so far all the guys so far have said it is fine, and all the girls (barring you) said no.

    What I mainly do not understand is why these seem to suggest that doing it over her friends means that I prefer them over her. But under that logic, it would mean I also prefer random people over her too which they somewhat seem fine with instead. So it is like them telling me they would be fine if I preferred random person XYZ over them but not if I preferred one of their friends over them. Baffles me.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Judging from this thread so far all the guys so far have said it is fine, and all the girls (barring you) said no.

    What I mainly do not understand is why these seem to suggest that doing it over her friends means that I prefer them over her. But under that logic, it would mean I also prefer random people over her too which they somewhat seem fine with instead. So it is like them telling me they would be fine if I preferred random person XYZ over them but not if I preferred one of their friends over them. Baffles me.
    I didn't say it was better. I don't like randomer wanks either. But if it was a choice, I'd rather it be a porno or celeb than someone we both know...

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Judging from this thread so far all the guys so far have said it is fine, and all the girls (barring you) said no.

    What I mainly do not understand is why these seem to suggest that doing it over her friends means that I prefer them over her. But under that logic, it would mean I also prefer random people over her too which they somewhat seem fine with instead. So it is like them telling me they would be fine if I preferred random person XYZ over them but not if I preferred one of their friends over them. Baffles me.
    If you genuinely didn't think you'd done wrong you wouldn't have made this thread. And please learn to read; I never said you preferred your gf's friends to her. Go to bed and stop ******* over your partner's mates' instagrams. That or answer my last question.
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    (Original post by holson)
    Just because women want to wear whatever clothes it doesn't mean they are asking me to **** over them.

    You are kind of implying you do prefer them - if you were committed to your girlfriend surely you wouldn't need to find other near-naked girls as your girlf would suffice.

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    You did not fully catch what I said. Wear skimpy clothes and post them all over social media, knowing that it would mainly attract the attention of males, which is where most of their likes and comments would come from.

    Not really. I can eat beef and I can eat chicken, but some days I prefer lamb. If I was commited to chicken as my favourite I would not need to try other meat, is that what you are saying?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You did not fully catch what I said. Wear skimpy clothes and post them all over social media, knowing that it would mainly attract the attention of males, which is where most of their likes and comments would come from.

    Not really. I can eat beef and I can eat chicken, but some days I prefer lamb. If I was commited to chicken as my favourite I would not need to try other meat, is that what you are saying?
    You don't commit to a meat. Unless you're implying women are pieces of meat? It sounds like the reasoning of a cheater. My fiancé isn't chicken. He's all the food. I don't need any other food except him. Because he's all of it. Get me?

    Women post the pics for self-confidence mostly. It feels good to get likes. It doesn't mean they put them up there because they want men to ****. I'd feel very creeped out if some guy did that to me. Unless it was my OH.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You did not fully catch what I said. Wear skimpy clothes and post them all over social media, knowing that it would mainly attract the attention of males, which is where most of their likes and comments would come from.

    Not really. I can eat beef and I can eat chicken, but some days I prefer lamb. If I was commited to chicken as my favourite I would not need to try other meat, is that what you are saying?
    So YOU're saying that your girlfriend (chicken) is your favourite but you're eating others? Love for her to see this. ANSWER MY QUESTION
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    (Original post by holson)
    You don't commit to a meat. Unless you're implying women are pieces of meat? It sounds like the reasoning of a cheater. My fiancé isn't chicken. He's all the food. I don't need any other food except him. Because he's all of it. Get me?

    Women post the pics for self-confidence mostly. It feels good to get likes. It doesn't mean they put them up there because they want men to ****. I'd feel very creeped out if some guy did that to me. Unless it was my OH.

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    (Original post by hannahhaworth)
    At no point did I mention her preferring them over you. I was saying imagine that she went through her 'wankbank' of your mates with you -how would that make you feel? Something you've avoided answering.
    you said "then giving you a list of those she preferred" quite clearly. I dont know how I would feel, but clearly not as butthurt as some of you are on this thread
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    you said "then giving you a list of those she preferred" quite clearly. I dont know how I would feel, but clearly not as butthurt as some of you are on this thread
    preffered to **** over. obviously. still not answered it, who's butthurt here really?
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    basically, anon, you know that you're a foul piece of human garbage or you wouldn't have started this thread. so do the decent thing and break up with your gf because she doesn't deserve to be with such a selfish human being as you. How do you think she'd feel seeing this thread? Who do you think she'd agree with?
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    (Original post by holson)
    You don't commit to a meat. Unless you're implying women are pieces of meat? It sounds like the reasoning of a cheater. My fiancé isn't chicken. He's all the food. I don't need any other food except him. Because he's all of it. Get me?

    Women post the pics for self-confidence mostly. It feels good to get likes. It doesn't mean they put them up there because they want men to ****. I'd feel very creeped out if some guy did that to me. Unless it was my OH.

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    No I could have used cars or any other example. The thing is none of her friends are involved, and neither she or any of them know. So no one is getting hurt.

    If you post an overly revealing pic I would not be surprised if someone has to be honest, but you would not know.
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    I think you've lost here, anon.

    Either break up with your girlf, who you clearly don't respect or start being a decent person.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No I could have used cars or any other example. The thing is none of her friends are involved, and neither she or any of them know. So no one is getting hurt.

    If you post an overly revealing pic I would not be surprised if someone has to be honest, but you would not know.
    Ah, the classic; 'YOU DRESSED LIKE THAT SO YOU WANTED IT'
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    basically, anon, you know that you're a foul piece of human garbage or you wouldn't have started this thread. so do the decent thing and break up with your gf because she doesn't deserve to be with such a selfish human being as you. How do you think she'd feel seeing this thread? Who do you think she'd agree with?
    I am physically not cheating on her though. How is it selfish? Your man could be (most likely) doing the same thing on you without you knowing. I mean you can not be there every second of the day when he feels like he wants some :rolleyes:
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    Ah, the classic; 'YOU DRESSED LIKE THAT SO YOU WANTED IT'
    No it is different to rape, which I assume is what you are referring to. Rape is going against someones consent. And there is usually emotional (sometimes physical) damage involved. Here no one is getting hurt in any case.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am physically not cheating on her though. How is it selfish? Your man could be (most likely) doing the same thing on you without you knowing. I mean you can not be there every second of the day when he feels like he wants some :rolleyes:
    Yeah and I know he does because we've talked about it, so the respect is there, and I know he'd never use pics of my friends. Not that it's remotely relevant because I'm not the one posting questions about it.

    You, sunshine, are querying it on a public forum and saying fairly rapey things when challenged. You know you're in the wrong and you know if your gf saw this she'd dump you. So either stop airing your icky sticky laundry online or learn how to take criticism.
 
 
 
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