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Muslims - would you date a non-Muslim? watch

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    No Only Muslim men for me, it's because I'm a practising Muslim so I want to be with someone who share the same values and beliefs as me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm just curious as to whether a practising Muslim would consider dating someone who is not of the same religion or avoid it, be it for family reasons, personal preference etc.
    Is this a male? Do you fancy a Muslim girl and your a Christian?
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    If you asked me a few months ago,I'd say no. Whereas now, I'd date anyone who made me happy, regardless of religion. Marriage on the other hand, I'm sure there'll be complications.

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    (Original post by saeed97)
    Christians and Jews yes but thats it.
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    Marriage that is
    And the children would have to convert to islam after right?
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    And the children would have to convert to islam after right?
    I dont want no kids
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    (Original post by saeed97)
    I dont want no kids
    Ok
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    (Original post by saeed97)
    I dont want no kids
    >arab
    >"i dont want no kids"

    ayy we have a traitor amidst our ranks
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    Lol what kind of practising Muslim would date.
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    I think in all likelihood I probably will 'date' and perhaps even marry a non-muslim. My idea of dating would not be the same as western dating though (e.g definately no sex before marraige or intimacy), I would expect to get to know the other person though-by talking with them, socialising etc. The thing is while I am a practicing muslim, I dont feel I fall into the 'typical' muslim groups- I've tried socialising and I just don't click with them, and i'm not even sure they really accept me as a muslim (well thats how I feel when i'm around them). I'm mixed race, and my family is not overly religious (e.g I don't wear hijab, my mum was not brought up wearing hijab either), and I think the problem is where many muslim families have the "arranged" marraige (more so introducing two individuals to see if they want to be together) as a means to overcome the dating issue, that just isn't going to happen for me. Its not a cultural thing for me, nor do I have extensive family/friendship ties to other muslims. Guess its made even more complicated by the fact i'm female and its haram to enter into marraige with a non-muslim. Its a dilemma...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    >arab
    >"i dont want no kids"

    ayy we have a traitor amidst our ranks
    loool show yourself
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Lol what kind of practising Muslim would date.
    Me...
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    No way
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    (Original post by saeed97)
    loool show yourself
    hla
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    (Original post by ammmauk)
    hla
    hla ya habib, ana "traitor"? :rofl:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Me...
    Quite a contradiction :rolleyes:

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    (Original post by saeed97)
    hla ya habib, ana "traitor"? :rofl:
    ofcccourse
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ofcccourse
    3fwan ya basha
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Quite a contradiction :rolleyes:

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    Read my other post...I wouldnt see how I could possibly get around it.
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    (Original post by saeed97)
    3fwan ya basha
    if u dont have atleast 5 children wrby you're either white or traitor
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Read my other post...I wouldnt see how I could possibly get around it.
    Idk. You would have to speak to a scholar about that. You can't marry a non Muslim.
 
 
 
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