On OKCupid, women's profiles get ratings, based on how often they reply. Despite my best intentions, my status went from: 'replies often' to 'replies very selectively' in the space of a few days. My ratings went down largely because I couldn't bring myself to reply to thread after thread of: 'sex? / give us ur number luv / nice angle on ur pic when can i get u on ur knees??? ;DDD etc., etc.'.
Now I'm moving to his city