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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Something not being innate doesn't mean it isn't sincere. My point was that sexuality is fluid and you may change. If you do, coming out now will create a whole lot of awkwardness for little reason imo.
    though surely if you want to be with someone in a physical relationship in the future thats fine and it shouldn't matter to people what your label was before. However now you're identifying as asexual and that's whats important
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    though surely if you want to be with someone in a physical relationship in the future thats fine and it shouldn't matter to people what your label was before. However now you're identifying as asexual and that's whats important
    Yeah, it won't matter for future relationships. But you could seriously piss off your friends/family now by saying you're asexual and if you then go and turn on that at a later date then I have to ask - was it worth it?
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    Yeah, it won't matter for future relationships. But you could seriously piss off your friends/family now by saying you're asexual and if you then go and turn on that at a later date then I have to ask - was it worth it?
    Though surely it shouldn't anger them as they're not the ones having to deal with it. It may confuse them, yes but anger? That's a whole step further to get angry with someone else's relationship.. plus as he said at the moment it's on his mind..why not just get it off your chest instead of worrying about it? Or just talk to them.. without making a big deal. Otherwise it's just going to eat the insides of you, and yeh at a later date he may still be asexual or whatever but yeh that's to be seen later on..
 
 
 
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