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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Even if OP gets his way, OP will one day be the poor boyfriend who is just another rung in the ladder as the girl climbs her way to better and better.
    Just hit it and quit it that's my motto anyway after my last gf


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    Just hit it and quit it that's my motto anyway after my last gf


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    Awww what happened Don't let one person in past corrode your future.
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    (Original post by Rakas21)
    Coming onto somebody in a relationship is being a bit of a **** but fair enough, your not dishonouring yourself by attempting to take what you desire (in other avenues of life, it's actually a very good trait).

    Consider this though.. if she actually says yes to you then she's essentially committing an act of disloyalty.. is that really an attractive trait? Why would she not do the same to you?

    Hence my opinion is that if all somebody wants is sex, then ignore relationship status. If you want something meaningful, let events run their course and after making sure your not the rebound go for it.
    Thanks, good advice.
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Awww what happened Don't let one person in past corrode your future.
    Dated for 2 years hadn't met each other in person but talked for hours each day she started uni I asked her not to talk to this guy or go to his house cause I knew he liked her she broke up with me now they're together abd she wants to be friends with me cause she misses talking to me and now wants to meet me


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    I want to let a girl know that I would date her (or have feeling for her) in a subtle way. The only caveat is that she is in a relationship. My own opinion is that there's nothing wrong with telling a girl you like her if she is in a relationship. She is free to reject me, and if she loves her boyfriend she probably will, but I don't personally see anything wrong with providing a choice. I understand people have different viewpoints; however, I don't intend this thread to be a moral discussion.

    This girl has been in a relationship for quite a few years but has expressed feelings that she doesn't know why she's with him, that they don't really match with each other etcetera. She's in a class with me at university so we see each other quite a lot. I don't know if there's a subtle way to go about telling her I like her/ would date her, but any experience/ advice on this would be much appreciated!
    If she was that unhappy she would leave him, there is nothing you can do about it unless she actually leaves him.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah... as I said this thread is not intended to be a moral discussion. Make a thread yourself if you want to discuss the morality of this topic.
    Who the hell is this guy?
    You asked for advice and you have to deal with the good and bad advice!
 
 
 
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