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    (Original post by jlsmpV2)
    trying to justify your larger than 15 figure?
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    (Original post by Bupdeeboowah)
    There's a term for this kind of person: a **** monkey, because they swing from penis to penis.
    hahahahahahahhahahahahahaha, DEAD
    best joke i heard all day
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    I marry a girl who'd slept with 100 hundred different men if she was a nice person and I loved her, you can't judge a person based on a fu%&(king statistic. Sex is enjoyable right? so as long as your being safe why the hell wouldn't you do it as much as you possibly can if that's what you enjoy doing?
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    (Original post by Illiberal Liberal)
    Hm, interesting question.

    As long as none of them were ONS and all during serious relationships then I could possible accept it. I feel justified in that because I wouldn't ever sleep with someone outside of a relationship.

    But the problem with this is that 15+ men is quite a lot so if they were all during relationships, her average relationship clearly doesn't last very long, which could point to a deeper problem with her ability to maintain a relationship? So maybe not after all... :dontknow:
    You dont have to be so politically correct just admit it that you'd feel slightly uncomfrotable if your wife had 20 ***** up her ******
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    (Original post by panophobic)
    In this day and age, very few women or men will be virgins when you marry them.

    This is such a typical question.

    If instead, we asked, "Would you marry a man who had sex with more than 15 people", the first thought that would pop into my head would be "15? That's pretty low for a guy". It's this underlying gender bias that puts women at disadvantage.

    Should I marry a woman who has had sex with more than 15 men?

    If my brother, friend or colleague asked me this about his potential wife, I would tell him no.

    Why?

    Because if you have to ask this question, it shows you are uncomfortable with her sexualitiy, and could ultimatley cause a bad marriage.

    But if you're asking me if its okay to marry a woman who has had sex with 15 people, um, then YES, because its her body and you can't control her past. So long as she hasn't slept with any of these people WHILST YOU WERE TOGETHER, what can you say about it really?

    If you start questioning your feelings or future with somebody because of their past, where does it stop really?
    I think women should be encouraged to remain virgins until marriage or at least until they're with someone they plan to marry. It doesn't mean a guy is uncomfortable with their sexuality, but why would they put time and effort into a girl who's slept around and had no respect for herself or her body. Women are the ones that can get pregnant, not men and so the repercussions of them sleeping around is worse than for men. Also, I don't think a woman who's had abortions because of sleeping around is a good wife either. I wouldn't want to marry someone who'd be fine with me having slept with 15 men 😂
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    (Original post by Mentally)
    You dont have to be so politically correct just admit it that you'd feel slightly uncomfrotable if your wife had 20 ***** up her ******
    :lol:

    But I just think it depends on the circumstances. As long as she's not the type to get with random guys at parties/clubs and they were all in serious relationships then it wouldn't be much of an issue.
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    (Original post by thecatwithnohat)
    You can say a sexually liberated woman is allowed to do what she wants blah blah

    But think of it this way:

    If she met her final partner who she was like "right, I want to settle down with him" at like mid-30 / 40 then I'd understand the 15 other partners because she's obviously had a long life, and it'll be safe to assume that her relationships were relatively meaningful enough to last a small while.

    However, if she's getting married at like 24 and has been penetrated by 15 guys before meeting her fiancée to be, I'd feel a bit iffy and would assume a small number or quite a few of them were ONSs. Just 15 is a bit much to me.
    Assuming that she lost her virginity when she was 18, she would have slept with about 3 different men each year. Is it really THAT strange?

    I respect your opinion, but to me it sounds way too exaggerated to say that she is a hoe for sleeping with 15 guys.
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    (Original post by John55)
    I marry a girl who'd slept with 100 hundred different men if she was a nice person and I loved her, you can't judge a person based on a fu%&(king statistic. Sex is enjoyable right? so as long as your being safe why the hell wouldn't you do it as much as you possibly can if that's what you enjoy doing?


    you can judge people on statistics, as they are a real world representation of the occurrence of traits/variables in people

    are you saying you would marry a pornstar if she was a nice person?
    if so, i hope you enjoy your cuckold goals of 2016
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    nobody wants to call someone their wife when to others they are just a name on their list.
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    (Original post by Mentally)
    Hell no.
    I would also say no to half that number
    How do you sleep with 7 and a half men?
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    (Original post by Pcabezas)
    Assuming that she lost her virginity when she was 18, she would have slept with about 3 different men each year. Is it really THAT strange?

    I respect your opinion, but to me it sounds way too exaggerated to say that she is a hoe for sleeping with 15 guys.
    Of course I'm not an advocate of the "stay pure until marriage" but that number .. no.

    I'm not just saying this about girls, the same would apply to guys too.

    I don't know, I'd just feel uncomfortable that so many guys have seen the body of the woman I'm about to spend the rest of my life with. Why am I even referring to myself, I'm not attracted to girls :rofl:
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    FFS. Some people are unbelievably hypocrtical, judgemental, narcississtic egotists.

    The real question should be why ANY girl, virgin or not, would even consider dating let alone marrying someone who is so insecure they need to ask.

    Get over yourselves.
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    (Original post by saeed97)
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    The latter does not mean "no" :colone:

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    (Original post by thecatwithnohat)
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    We had to get the message across.
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    (Original post by *Stefan*)
    The latter does not mean "no" :colone:

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    (Original post by Bobjim12)
    How do you sleep with 7 and a half men?
    Could be a midget. Idk
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    (Original post by Mentally)
    Could be a midget. Idk
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    It is more the woman bit that is off putting to me, but I would have no problem with settling down with someone who had a promiscuous past if I felt they wouldn't cheat on me.

    Anyway, people who have been around the block are far better in bed than the sexually inexperienced ones.
 
 
 
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