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I'd speak to someone at college as I'm sure he'd get a serious threat of suspension for spreading these images. If that's no good then tell him you'll go to the police.. then if he still persists actually do go to the police
Original post by Anonymous
Not sure if it wasn't clear but i didn't state that we weren't together (didn't even know eachother at the time) and also she didn't anything to him, he took them of her)


I would then expect the woman to take action if she wishes for the pictures to be gone. Tell her about how you feel about the pics so that she may legally put this away.
As others have said, it is a criminal offence to send sexual pictures of people without their consent. The dude will get put on the sex offenders list and have his life ruined. I would definitely tell her to go to the police, but if she is really against that then threaten him with the police, the threat of being a sex offender should do it as it'll block him out of jobs and neighbourhoods etc
Original post by Hashim123
Is that currently in force? Says it applies from "spring", but no indication of a year, and from what I've read, it's a pretty recent development.

Yes it is currently in force
Threaten him with contacting the police unless he deletes the picture.
Original post by Anonymous
She refuses to speak or go anywhere near him because she hates him that much :/


Well she has to say something to him! Say something and be firm and tell him if he carries on she will get the police involved. I wouldn't advise you to get involved, you will be causing more harm then good from the looks of it.
Original post by SophieSmall
If she us under 18 then she could be charged with child porn herself as well if she willingly sent it. However it sounds like it was taken without her knowledge or consent.


I know, hence this part:

"...might even end up incriminating her going by some cases I've come across."


Original post by SophieSmall
Yeah I think it was introduced either a year ago or 2 years ago.


Fair enough, that seems like OP's most sensible option, then.
Original post by Hashim123
I know, hence this part:





Fair enough, that seems like OP's most sensible option, then.


I didn't read your whole post :tongue:
Original post by SophieSmall
I didn't read your whole post :tongue:


Charming. ¬.¬

I'll just selectively read your posts from now on, see how you like it. :colonhash:
As much as it's a very serious issue, i'd rather not actually get him done because it ****s with the rest of his life. He could be a changed man in 5 years! Maybe the threat of the police will do :biggrin:
Original post by Hashim123
Charming. ¬.¬

I'll just selectively read your posts from now on, see how you like it. :colonhash:


k.
Original post by SophieSmall
k.


Sorry, did you say something? Cause I can only see a blank post.
Jokes getting old now.
Thanks for the serious response :wink:
Use paragraphs for pits sake.
Sorry i'm not sure if i made this clear, probably not by the responses, (z) is not in my college and has never been affiliated with them, so i doubt if i went to them they would do anything anyway :/
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Original post by Anonymous
As much as it's a very serious issue, i'd rather not actually get him done because it ****s with the rest of his life. He could be a changed man in 5 years! Maybe the threat of the police will do :biggrin:

Good point. It's more important his right to take photos of naked women and distribute them is protected than your girlfriend's right to not have photos taken of her and distributed.

Obviously, he is more important to you than she is.

She'll appreciate that, I'm sure.
Original post by 06sulraj
Use paragraphs for pits sake.


I did, several but when i posted it, it just condensed it down into one big one.
Original post by Simes
Good point. It's more important his right to take photos of naked women and distribute them is protected than your girlfriend's right to not have photos taken of her and distributed.

Obviously, he is more important to you than she is.

She'll appreciate that, I'm sure.


The problem is, at the time she didn't mind it's. It's just now that he's showing everyone she's not liking it..
Original post by Anonymous
I did, several but when i posted it, it just condensed it down into one big one.


Added some paragraphs back in for you :smile:

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