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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Okay, lets make this clearer

    Girl=Zara boy=Xavier




    My advice:No don't physically beat him up because your 'alpha', thats completely and utterly stupid. Your gf should speak to him, tell him to delete the photos of his phone or she will get the police involved. He cannot do that.
    She refuses to speak or go anywhere near him because she hates him that much :/
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    (Original post by Hashim123)
    Is that currently in force? Says it applies from "spring", but no indication of a year, and from what I've read, it's a pretty recent development.
    Yeah I think it was introduced either a year ago or 2 years ago.
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    I'd speak to someone at college as I'm sure he'd get a serious threat of suspension for spreading these images. If that's no good then tell him you'll go to the police.. then if he still persists actually do go to the police
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Not sure if it wasn't clear but i didn't state that we weren't together (didn't even know eachother at the time) and also she didn't anything to him, he took them of her)
    I would then expect the woman to take action if she wishes for the pictures to be gone. Tell her about how you feel about the pics so that she may legally put this away.
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    As others have said, it is a criminal offence to send sexual pictures of people without their consent. The dude will get put on the sex offenders list and have his life ruined. I would definitely tell her to go to the police, but if she is really against that then threaten him with the police, the threat of being a sex offender should do it as it'll block him out of jobs and neighbourhoods etc
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    (Original post by Hashim123)
    Is that currently in force? Says it applies from "spring", but no indication of a year, and from what I've read, it's a pretty recent development.
    Yes it is currently in force
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    Threaten him with contacting the police unless he deletes the picture.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She refuses to speak or go anywhere near him because she hates him that much :/
    Well she has to say something to him! Say something and be firm and tell him if he carries on she will get the police involved. I wouldn't advise you to get involved, you will be causing more harm then good from the looks of it.
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    If she us under 18 then she could be charged with child porn herself as well if she willingly sent it. However it sounds like it was taken without her knowledge or consent.
    I know, hence this part:

    "...might even end up incriminating her going by some cases I've come across."
    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Yeah I think it was introduced either a year ago or 2 years ago.
    Fair enough, that seems like OP's most sensible option, then.
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    (Original post by Hashim123)
    I know, hence this part:





    Fair enough, that seems like OP's most sensible option, then.
    I didn't read your whole post
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    I didn't read your whole post
    Charming. ¬.¬

    I'll just selectively read your posts from now on, see how you like it.
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    As much as it's a very serious issue, i'd rather not actually get him done because it ****s with the rest of his life. He could be a changed man in 5 years! Maybe the threat of the police will do
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    (Original post by Hashim123)
    Charming. ¬.¬

    I'll just selectively read your posts from now on, see how you like it.
    k.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Background: So a few months ago my girlfriend (didn't know her then) was speaking to a boy who we'll call (x) and my girlfriend we will call (z). So Z really liked x, though i'm not sure why because he's an absolute ********, but anyway she did. For whatever reason she had come out of the shower whilst on facetime to x, x being a little creep he print screened pictures of her, her breasts were on show at the time. Skipping ahead a few months, they stopped speaking and we both met through a friend, myself and z (bearing in mind, x goes to the same college as me and we used to be somewhat friends, more of an acquaintance) and so we were speaking and 2 months after we first met we became boyfriend and girlfriend, now this is where the problems arise. X still had the picture of her on his phone, and for whatever reason he decided on her birthday to send the picture of her to her friend saying 'Wish Z a happy birthday' (since they blocked each other on social media) , i was annoyed at this, but let it brush off. Then forwarding to about 6 months into our relationship he had shown one of my best mates along with a few of my other friends, in the social part of our college, furious i spoke to him and told him if he was to do it again something would come of it. Now, z had met another girl from our college who is friends with x, and was saying to z how x had showed her and her friends the pictures (this was 8 months into our relationship which was the wednesday just gone). So the whole point in this story is myself looking for guidance on what to do, firstly i could resort to verbally telling him again, but that's soft and considering i'm Alpha and he's Beta i could do alot more, physically. I don't want it to resort to violence for legal reasons though, it's frustrating the fact he thinks he can get away with it. Iv'e considered making him delete them off his phone but how can i really go about that?... Sorry it's all abit long winded just needed you to understand the whole situation. Hope someone can help!
    I'm so confused. Looks like a horrible algebra problem :eek4: anyone a mathematician? Need your help to solve this complicated problem :eek4:

    Ok I think I follow who x, y and z is. Hmm. I reckon you should tell a teacher and they'll get him into a room and talk some sense into him and scare him that the police will be called and he will get a criminal record if he doesn't obey.
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    k.
    Sorry, did you say something? Cause I can only see a blank post.
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    (Original post by rock_climber86)
    I'm so confused. Looks like a horrible algebra problem :eek4: anyone a mathematician? Need your help to solve this complicated problem :eek4:
    Jokes getting old now.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Jokes getting old now.
    i just edited my original post. See above.
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    (Original post by rock_climber86)
    i just edited my original post. See above.
    Thanks for the serious response
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    Use paragraphs for pits sake.
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    Sorry i'm not sure if i made this clear, probably not by the responses, (z) is not in my college and has never been affiliated with them, so i doubt if i went to them they would do anything anyway :/
 
 
 
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