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    Try to wean yourself off it, go for a run if possible. Drink non alcoholic drinks when out socially to curb the habit! Do not shop online!
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    (Original post by AdjectiveNoun)
    A man walks into a doctor's office. He says "Doctor, it hurts when I do THIS!"
    The doctor replies, "Don't do that"
    I think i found that funnier than it was meant to be.
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    (Original post by Lunch Money)
    Why on Earth would you pay to talk webcam models when you could easily go on a site like Chaturbate.

    Must be a troll.
    You see the problem is....

    When you have £3K in the bank, thats a lot of money isn't it?

    When student finance gives you MORE money, well then....

    But then when you become addicted to spending it on cam sex, it is a problem.

    And that site you mentioned, you don't get 1-1 sessions with the model. I'm paying 1-1 sessions with models.
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    (Original post by The Rad Prince)
    He probably wants to connect with a person as much as he wants to jack off, OP go out and have sex.
    Girls are after my flatmate, not me.

    im ugly (which this doesn't bother). The one girl who i'm close to in uni (and could possibly get a relationship) is a christian so no.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Girls are after my flatmate, not me.

    im ugly (which this doesn't bother). The one girl who i'm close to in uni (and could possibly get a relationship) is a christian so no.
    If you're put off by a girl because she is Christian when she does have sex like any other girl, you will be standing there wondering what the hell happened
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    (Original post by The Rad Prince)
    He probably wants to connect with a person as much as he wants to jack off, OP go out and have sex.
    and what if you can;t do that?


    I ask for a friend.
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    (Original post by The Rad Prince)
    If you're put off by a girl because she is Christian when she does have sex like any other girl, you will be standing there wondering what the hell happened
    She doesn't have sex with anyone!! i know this. i'm a christian too but i want more than a stupid religious friendzone. I know she is in love with me (she indirectly said in text) but she using me to 'become born again' by forcing me to attend her church so that she can be with me without sin (many church girls do this)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a first year student who is suffering from depression in uni.

    I have realised i have been drinking more and my porn use is getting worse. Yesterday i was drunk and i spent £33.99 in online porn sex chat with a model. I was so angry and pissed off because i haven't got much money in my bank account.

    But even when i'm not drunk, i do the same thing again . The models just tempt me. At first i like to troll them but once they tempt me, i keep pressing the credits button and having sex chat with them.

    Help me please. I think i'm having a bad porn addiction because nobody wants to be my friend in uni and that i am friendzoned. Please :cry2:
    Let your parents take control of your account. The fear of them ever seeing what you use it for will straighten you out son.
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    (Original post by i<3milkshake)
    Let your parents take control of your account. The fear of them ever seeing what you use it for will straighten you out son.
    They know i spend 33.99 but they don't know its for cam sex.

    I tell them i spend 33.99 on amazon prime or something like that
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She doesn't have sex with anyone!! i know this. i'm a christian too but i want more than a stupid religious friendzone. I know she is in love with me (she indirectly said in text) but she using me to 'become born again' by forcing me to attend her church so that she can be with me without sin (many church girls do this)
    She would if she were turned on enough.

    Also being Christian is clearly messing you up as a person, you don't have sex, such a great person you are (sarcasm), but now you're addicted to sex workers.


    (Original post by ChaoticButterfly)
    and what if you can;t do that?I ask for a friend.
    Simply going out and connecting with other people, even as friends would probably help actually.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    They know i spend 33.99 but they don't know its for cam sex.

    I tell them i spend 33.99 on amazon prime or something like that
    Let them actually get the statement sent to them. They can read through it and see that you actually paid that money to see a women in a state of undress.

    Also, stop going on the sites. You know how it ends. Failing that get a chastity belt so you can't touch yourself, anything, just don't go on the sites.

    They are getting paid a lot of money for doing what they do-you have to know that temptation is all around you and it is bad for you. However, people will still encourage it as it benefits them.

    Biblical sounding rant about temptation over. But it is true-don't give in to weakness because you will be the one that pays.
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    (Original post by i<3milkshake)
    Let them actually get the statement sent to them. They can read through it and see that you actually paid that money to see a women in a state of undress.

    Also, stop going on the sites. You know how it ends. Failing that get a chastity belt so you can't touch yourself, anything, just don't go on the sites.

    They are getting paid a lot of money for doing what they do-you have to know that temptation is all around you and it is bad for you. However, people will still encourage it as it benefits them.

    Biblical sounding rant about temptation over. But it is true-don't give in to weakness because you will be the one that pays.
    I can't tell my parents that i watch porn. They will disown me and it would look bad for the family, so showing the statement is a huge no.

    It's self-discipline is what i need.
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    I would definitely make an appointment with the docs if you haven't spoken to them already about your depression. Vital you do this.

    Also look for Uni Societies that match your interests, or even something you don't know anything about but peaks your interest. Good way to meet folks.

    Delete your accounts on there and don't be tempted to just go on and lurk - avoid the sites altogether.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She doesn't have sex with anyone!! i know this. i'm a christian too but i want more than a stupid religious friendzone. I know she is in love with me (she indirectly said in text) but she using me to 'become born again' by forcing me to attend her church so that she can be with me without sin (many church girls do this)
    Why not marry her? Generally it is acceptable to have sex after marriage, given that you are both Christian and like/fancy each other. Do it the biblical way as that is acceptable in the sight of God.

    Do not let Porn and the devil tempt you into sin!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Earlier this year, i joined an account which lets you have sex chat with models as i got bored looking for girls on omegle.
    ... you have heard of pornhub, right?
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    Is this on LiveJamine by any chance?
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    (Original post by SmellyProtein)
    Is this on LiveJamine by any chance?
    How did you know?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How did you know?
    The amount you spent seemed familiar and the credit system they use as well. Iv used livejasmine before but only the 9.99 free credits. Very tempting to buy some. 2 or 3 sessions on there and its cheaper to just buy an escort for an hour.
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    (Original post by SmellyProtein)
    The amount you spent seemed familiar and the credit system they use as well. Iv used livejasmine before but only the 9.99 free credits. Very tempting to buy some. 2 or 3 sessions on there and its cheaper to just buy an escort for an hour.
    do you still use it?

    yeah its good and addictive but it has to stopped
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't tell my parents that i watch porn. They will disown me and it would look bad for the family, so showing the statement is a huge no.

    It's self-discipline is what i need.
    Well don't tell them that you watch porn, just give them access to your statements that occur from now on in. Don't pay to watch the porn and it won't come up on your statement. Do pay, and it comes up on your statement and your parents disown you.

    Hopefully the fear of being disowned will stop you paying.
 
 
 
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