Is physical attraction important to you? Watch
Guys do you think it's possible to force/ change how you see someone physically? A guy told me I should try and make myself physically attracted to him, that it will come later after some time but I told him I think it's impossible. I've tried and nothing changed. However there are couples where a partner has admitted originally they were not physically attracted to their spouse yet after months/years it changed. I realised later how complex and complicated attraction is.
There's an important distinction though, between developing an attraction to someone organically and trying to make it happen. I don't think you can try to cultivate an attraction to someone if you just don't feel it. We can't always explain what makes us attracted to people, but we sure as hell know whether we are or not.
Average looks, great personality> Hot with an average personality