Life after uni, friendship circles ?? Watch
Ive graduated and ive been working part time, just untill I find a proper job and I have, I start in January. However since then I have been so bored at work they only give me one or two shifts a week sometimes none. Ive asked for more but they dont.
My friends from uni are good and we have a great laugh I hope the friendship lasts and we all live in the same city, well the lads do. I still talk to my friend from college and one from school, now and then but I havent seen them in a while just spoken on the phone as they are working.
It seems some people are busy, is this how it goes when you leave uni ? I mean when/who do you meet up with ?
I keep thinking back to how good its was at uni, we had a good circle, I was always seeing and getting to know people who I got on with and joked with. I probably wont see some now.
Hows life after uni treating you ?
I was just about to make a thread until I saw this.
I'm pretty much in the same situation as you. Next year I'll graduate and all the 'friends' I met at uni will probably not talk to me any more. It's a sad state but it's bound to happen. I do enjoy being at uni with them, sharing stories and talking but once uni is over, the fun is likely to be over too...
I mean what else can you talk about apart from "how's job hunting?", "oh, it's good". All this small talk won't last very long.
So I guess I'll have to enjoy what I have left because in 6-7 months time I'll only really have 1 or 2 REAL friends left.
I suggest you go about making new friends. Try meetup.com - they have a number of social events weekly which will help make friends.
My 2 cents.