Nothing wrong with being nice after if all you have is being nice then that can be boring, if you are exciting and dramatic and make people feel alive you will have far more luck, even if you are downright horrible, because at the end of the day, at least you make them feel something.(Original post by Anonymous)
Well it sounds for you like it's more of a personality thing than a looks thing. I don't think you should change your personality but reserve you protective nature for women you have been dating for sometime perhaps. There's nothing wrong with being 'nice' but really people should sometimes earn your niceness because otherwise you can get used or turned into a doormat. Maybe just inject a little cheekiness or even cockiness (lol) in sometimes.
For me, I read somewhere that pure niceness isn't really attractive or exciting, unfortunately. Im a very 'nice', 'sweet as sugar' girl but to be honest I'm done with it most people prefer people who have an aloof, selfish, histrionic and dramatic side (aka bad girls and guys) as it evokes emotion and excitement in people and draws them closer. No more nice girl
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Why do all girls see me as a brother? watch
- 17-02-2016 18:17
- 17-02-2016 18:27
brothers don't flirt with their sisters, or show signs of attraction
there's your issue - you don't flirt with these girls.
(Original post by ACockyDreamer)
- 17-02-2016 19:37
Every girl i know see's me as a brother like damn. Can you not brother zone me like it's kinda deep?
Atm you're disappointed by their friend zoning and they can smell it.
Humans are creatures relish rejection and then acceptance in social relationships, makes them feel like they've earned something....