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Pretty girls do go for "nice guys" but are you actually a nice guy? watch

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    (Original post by Ishea16)
    a guy should be strong and should be able to communicate freely with the girl, if he thinks he's been treated unfairly then he should say it
    its all about being able to communicate properly without arguing
    long relationship tip 1
    but then again a guy should be 'nice' enough to compromise a bit
    as should the girl...
    I like that response, it's surprising when you think how straight forward it should be, yet every relationship I know has arguments
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    that's why you have -1 in your rep
    Hard to argue with that.

    p.s Well done on the bender badges
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    'nice guys' are scrawny little boys who think they're entitled to a relationship by pretending to be nice around women in a condescending way or by acting like a submissive doormat. they are abhorrent!
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    (Original post by 2cool)
    Hard to argue with that.

    p.s Well done on the bender badges
    how does one even get negative rep ? xD
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    how does one even get negative rep ? xD
    If you look at the thread, I respond genuinely to good replies.I get negative rep for trolling the 10 trolls to every good reply!

    Edit: that reply was too nice I backed down too easy and became "nice guy". Go **** yourself
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    No one wants the dreaded 'nice guy'.

    But they do want nice guys.


    Actually let me rephrase that.

    They want to marry the nice guys.

    Shag the bad boys.

    Best of both worlds.
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    (Original post by 2cool)
    I like that response, it's surprising when you think how straight forward it should be, yet every relationship I know has arguments
    i guess its because both people are so careful not to mess their chances that they just avoid communication and just tolerate it when the other person says something wrong
    but ofcourse when that tolerance finishes
    then everything comes out, stuff from the past that the other person didnt know got the person offended
    then more often than usual, pride takes over logic and the aim of the discussion/argument becomes to throw the blame at the other person instead of trying to understand why they each said/did things
    maybe that's what makes couples avoid communication like the plaque lol
 
 
 
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