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He's not attractive, does drugs, and doesn't care about me. But I still want him :(

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Original post by samina_ay
And you cannot make a positive change to a man who don't wanna be changed. Lol. Find someone who will be worth your time and love. Xx


Absolutely, and I know this rationally speaking that I cannot change him or save him. Emotionally though I can't seem to let him go and watch him suffer :frown:
Original post by stefano865
You fell for him because you liked the attention he gave you.

It sounds like you are trying to fill a void in your life.

Remember he has done nothing for you and doesn't deserve your love.

Move on. :wink:


I'd agree I'm trying to fill a different kind of void, but a void nonetheless.

Thanks for the encouragement. You are right as much as I want to give him my love he's done nothing to deserve it.
Original post by Dnkz7
Be totally honest with yourself and this might be brutal..
You are with some guy who doesn't have feelings for you
and has more interest in his drugs than you reciprocating
feelings for him.

You know the answer, just leave and find someone who deserves
your attention; let alone your feelings and desire for a committed
relationship.


Thank you I know honestly the truth it just hurts me. Yes drugs are more important him. My mother warned me a long time ago that you will always be second best at most to a drug abuser, as she lost her best friend to drugs. So even as a friend, this probably isn't going to work.
Original post by drowzee
Sums up a lot of men tbh :mmm:


I think there's lots of good men out there, but none of them seem to like or notice me :angry: Only the 'bad' boys talk to me.

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