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    If it's something you'd openly tell them about and it won't upset them or make them angry, it's not cheating.
    If it's something you'll hide from them, feel uncomfortable telling them, or know they'd be upset or angry if they knew - it's cheating.
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    Yeah i'd say it is cheating
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    If you're in a committed relationship with someone,why would you send nudes to other? Ofcourse it's cheating
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    Well Im assuming someone who isn't your spouse then yes its bloody cheating.
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    Not really.. some people get sexual enjoyment from sending nudes and if their partner is up for that they should be open to it.
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    YES. but depends on the other
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    The fact that your turning to TSR in order to seek the answer for this obvious question because your guilty concious is looking for reassurance that the answer will be a "no" kinda confirms that you/they/whoever are cheating.

    Why would you exploit yourself to someone else anyway?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well, that pretty much sums it up!

    What do you think?
    Why anon, have you been sending cheeky nudes
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    my magic 8-ball says yes, my rubber with yes/no written on opposite sides agrees with this conclusion
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    100% cheating. Plus if you were happy in the relationship why would you feel the need to be sending those type of images to someone else anyway?? I think look at it this way, if your bf/gf was doing the same how would you feel???
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well, that pretty much sums it up!

    What do you think?
    Do you think it's cheating if I only put the tip in?




    The Inbetweeners lol
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    I consider sending nudes to someone other than your partner is cheating however other people would consider it not to be
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    What about Kim K, she splashing that ass for everyone to see. You don't see Kanye complaining.
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    (Original post by bethwalker85)
    What about Kim K, she splashing that ass for everyone to see. You don't see Kanye complaining.
    I get where your coming from, I mean once youve done a porno then putting pictures up covering certain parts with black bars (Kanye's new clothing line) isnt even as bad imo.
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    (Original post by dontcallmesammy)
    If it's something you'd openly tell them about and it won't upset them or make them angry, it's not cheating.
    If it's something you'll hide from them, feel uncomfortable telling them, or know they'd be upset or angry if they knew - it's cheating.
    Someone made a similar point earlier in the thread, sure it is subjective. But I don't think you'll find anyone in a conventional relationship (not an open one) that would be comfortable with their partner sending nude pictures to someone else.
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    (Original post by bethwalker85)
    What about Kim K, she splashing that ass for everyone to see. You don't see Kanye complaining.
    I actually think 'splashing it' everywhere is better (for a relationship) than sending private nude pictures. Maybe you'd prefer that not everyone be able to look at your partner naked on the internet, but if its just one person they've had to build up an intimate relationship over text (or what ever) which culminated in the exchange of naked pictures. Its such a monumental breach of trust, which I don' think is true of Kim.
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    Nah it's fair game. I don't even exclude hypothetical pornstars or prostitutes from the dating pool if I like them.
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    Depends on the conditions of the relationships. I wouldn't be too bothered personally.
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    Irrespective of whether or not I would consider it cheating, it would certainly be a sufficient breach of trust for me to terminate the relationship.
    :ditto: Unless it's an open relationship
 
 
 
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