You sound misogynistic - my initial reaction was 'fair play to the girl'. Many men struggle to understand that women also have sexualities, needs and desires. I think the fact that you are contemplating any of what you mentioned is a sure sign that the relationship you have is dead in the water and you should end it before it gets anymore sour. Also, everyone has a sexual history - good luck finding the pure virgin you so desire.
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What's it like where you are?