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I think my girlfriend is transgender, how do i make sure? Watch

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    if you are in love then it doesn't really matter
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    wow so many transphobic people on this thread
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    (Original post by ComputerMaths97)
    I have a wild suggestion, never been done before.

    Ask her.
    ^This will require some tact^

    I'd observe for a little longer, there will be tell tale signs like if she takes injections and pills. I personally have quite broad shoulders and my voice is naturally pretty deep by nature as my grandma and female cousins have low voices as well.
    Tall women often have larger feet, the average for women I think is a size 6/7 but I know a couple of women around 6ft with larger feet than that rocking a size 8/9.
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    (Original post by DanB1991)
    Well just have a feel.... if there's junk in the trunk she's a dude. If not.... she's post-op and it's sexist and transphobic to call her anything but a woman!
    No, if she identifies as a woman, then calling her anything other than a woman is transphobic. No one has to have surgery to justify their gender to you.
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    (Original post by Origami Bullets)
    No, if she identifies as a woman, then calling her anything other than a woman is transphobic. No one has to have surgery to justify their gender to you.
    I identify myself as a pineapple.... if you say I'm not it's pineapple-phobic!
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    I don't think there is any subtle way of finding out without asking her. You'll just have to wait until you're in bed together. Good luck OP
 
 
 
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